Hi im wondering if anyone can give me any useful tips. I've been talking to this girl on my course for a while and shes arranged twice to see me but both times shes flaked. recently I saw her out and she was drunk and told me she really likes me but cancelled because she was to shy and has liked me for ages. ive spoke to her in class and when shes with friends but I get the feeling when shes alone she gets really shy. She suggested that she comes to mine on sat and we cook food but there's a chance she might flake again.I do really like her and i'm wondering if theres anything I can do to help her commit to the date and make her relax. thanks

As cliche as this sounds.... Just be yourself.

In order for a girl to be more comfortable and relaxed around you (especially a really shy one) you have to show her that you are comfortable and relaxed too.