Okay so here's my theory about why I think most of the girls turn out to be sluts. I'm not saying this is a fact, it's just a theory...

I think the real problem are men. I'm getting sick of the man population. It can hardly be called like that. Just a bunch of metrosexuals with "swagger" lmao.

I have noticed this tendency that whenever we go to party or to a ball noone really dances with the girls anymore. Gfs and bfs dance together. Drunktards are humping girls, and lots of nice girls are bored to death. They dress up, do their perfect make up, and what they get is a herd of idiots who either lack the balls, or don't know how to respect a woman. Usually I come to the rescue and dance with at least the girls I know. At least they don't feel like they dressed up for nothing. Of course when I'm with my gf that's only possible if she gets tired from dancing...

And this is not the only thing. It is just the most obvious for me. A clear sign that men have lost their manliness.

Women however need men. They want to feel like a woman and for that they desperately need a men to provide them with emotions. The basics they need are:

Good sex
Submitting to a leader
A feeling of safety
Romance

So now we have a problem. Most of the men can not provide a woman with all of these. It's good if they can provide them with one or two of them. But a woman still wants to feel like a woman so she will do what's logical. If one man can not provide her with all what she needs then she will seek it from more men.

She will settle down with an idiot who is providing emotional and financial safety, meanwhile some disrespectful asshole will fuck her brains out and she will always keep some interesting dudes on the side who give her the romance.

I found that the very few men who I know are capable of providing all 4 criteria do not have relationship problems. They could be together for years and the woman is still all over him. And the other things are logical too...

If good sex is not provided, the woman will cheat.

If the man is not capable of leading, the woman will take control, go on a marathon of hysteria, act all bitchy, and will finally leave.

If the man can not give his woman a feeling of safety, she will become insecure with the relationship. She might stay with him, but pretty much neither of them will be happy. The woman will have self-respect problems and the man will not understand, will have enough, and most of the time the man ditches the woman, noting what a bitch she was and not even considering that the real problem was him.

Without romance the relationship will get boring. Love will just die and one party will break it off for sure after a while.

Those men who lack more than one criteria usually have difficulties with even getting girls not just keeping them.

Not trying to say that women are perfect and when there's a real man besides them they are always all kind and sweet. I just think men have a slightly bigger responsibility in relationships because we can affect women's emotions more easily than they can affect ours.

So ever you had a relationship that was not working, ask yourself if you have provided all 4 criteria and only then blame the woman. There's a good chance you unknowingly forced her into the bad behaviour.

Any thoughts or remarks are appreciated

Peace,

In$tinct.

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I think youre pretty right on here. Many have brought this up before.

http://www.blackdragon-blog.com/2013/08 ... n-and-now/

I think that men have just become so emasculated that no one knows how to be masculine anymore. Not in the US anyways. Its cool to be metro... Its easier to be a little bitch.

On a much larger scale the whole gender lines have been blurred. Women no longer just want to "submit to a leader" as you put it. I agree that a benevolent leader is a great family leader.

I would say before I found PUA I only did two of the four at any given time... most of my GFs cheated on me. So Im not going to disagree with your theory.

But I do know that since Ive started applying things similar to what youre stating that my relationships and the women that I qualify as such has dramatically improved. My GF thanks me all the time for being different. I have a backbone and act like a man yet at the same time claims no one has been as romantic as me. And the sex, jesus... She claims shes never had a man actually care about her cumming. Throw in full body squirting orgasms and she's GDamn hooked. And Im happier for it because shes a great GF and knows Im different.

Life is what you make it... you get out what you put in gentlemen!

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

Men are the cause of sluts.

Well, duh. Sluts love cock.

Scratch that, women love cock.

Sluts = women that dont hide their absolutely normal love of cock. Because of this are a bit easier to get into bed. And thus bullshit less about what you (Yes you with the cock) want most.

Why is your tone negative About this....?


Just my 2 cent.

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Problem is, we, as men, can have sex as much as we want and not be blamed for it. Whereas a woman kissing 2 guys in the same night is DIRECTLY labeled a slut. Let's not mention that the rumor spreads around and makes her whole reputation like shit.

All I see nowadays are most, not all, but most of men and women doing one night stands and blaming it on the alcohol in the end. This is because we, as guys, are mostly idiots trying to hump anything in our way. All we thinking of is having sex and ditching all the feelings talk.

Men have to understand that standing by a girl after having sex with her is NOT a bad thing. She gave you her body, offer her respect in return and appreciate what you have. Women are tired of being treated like that and this is why they are really PICKY these days when it comes to friends with benefits and relationships. It's even more of a shame how most of the guys here look for ways to get a girl in mind to have sex with them, ignoring everything that happens after. They are so obsessed with methods to get girls in bed, it's sad...

The whole idea of "Anti Slut Defense" and womens' "Fear Of Looking Like A Slut" is totally wrong. It may have been true once upon a time, but we live in a post-Feminist world where girls are encouraged to "have it all" and "you go girl" and that fucking two guys in one night makes them "strong and independent" because "they can do everything men can do."

What you guys think is "her fear of looking like a slut" is just an easy way for her to resist you. That's all it is. They couldn't care less if they look like a slut, many women wear that label like a badge of honor.

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I see your point but am going to disagree to a point. Yes its acceptable for a women to act "slutty" on Halloween now.

On the other hand, I believe women have something hard wired to have ASD. Practical application shows that many women still have ASD.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

You misinterpret what I said. Our definition of slut is different.

Single woman enjoying life and having multiple sex partners =/= slut

A woman in a committed relationship having multiple sex partners = slut (and this is what I think is mainly men's responsibility)

A woman who deliberately uses her sexual appeal to use men = slut (this has more to do with the misinterpretation of feminism and other dynamics going on in modern societies, though it is somewhat related to the emasculation of men)

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Your observations are incredibly good at the current state of society. And I have to agree, about the man-boys you're talking about. I wish I had those skills in a bigger value than I currently do, but that's what this journey is about right. The ironic thing is, your preaching the right thing at an audience that just won't listen, that won't be open to hear that they're not doing a good job, or the current method they're using isn't great, essentially preaching at the man-boys that will go straight up to girl and grind up her back door, rather than grab her hand spin her round and round then actually find out if she's having a good time, and really care about what she has to say, basically providing a good old fashioned male to female experience.

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It's not even just that. It won't hurt to do grinding. But you can't just go backdoor and start it, I mean that's ridiculous. The girl hasn't even seen your face and you just pop up out of nowhere and start humping her wtf?? Dance is sexual and a great place to escalate obviously. You don't need to spin her round and round to do that.

You can be sexually agressive and still give women a great time that they don't just remember you like "the guy who started humping me from behind".

To give an example, here in the community, one of the most divisive personalities is Skills360. He's often called a KJ and whatever because his game is brutally sexual. And dudes try out his method and fail with it and then they come back complaining, but it's not his fault. His method works because he ABSOLUTELY LOVES women. Look at his texts, there's lots of hidden romance in those blunt sexual messages. AFC tries it just to get laid and he focuses on being sexually agressive so much that he ignores the woman altogether and of course this is bound to fail.

Calibration. Key point in PUA. And many many guys fail to get it. And screening. Just as important. And this is why guys can't give women what they really need. They just suck. They're too occupied with trying to get laid, or trying not to fuck up the relationship, trying not to act needy, trying to be super alpha, trying new fingering techniques, trying to escalate, but they don't try to PAY ATTENTION TO THE FUCKING WOMAN THEY'RE GAMING!

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I do not like the term "slut" cause is use to degrade/put down women.

Most women are sexual or super sexual( i would say 90% or more), but they will choose who to be open and sexual with. The majority of men can not understand or bring that side of women out. A women will act like a nun with one dude, the same woman will act like a porn start with another.

The seducers, players have the understanding that women are sexual, and they have the skills to get them to open up and bring that side out of them...


Slut theory = Women theory...

Review the secret society when you get a chance:

http://www.theskillsmethod.com/exposing ... n-insider/

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Skills, you know I like your theory and agree with it. I already tried to clearify in my posts that slut doesn't equal women who like sex in my dictionary. What my point here is that unsatisfied women will turn into REAL sluts. I just wanted to point out that many times the infidelity of a woman is likely to be the fault of her partner not giving her what she truly desires(A MAN), and I want to emphasize that if a man really gives a woman what she needs then said woman will most likely not seek other possibilities regardless of what sex machine comes in her way.

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^ got you! Totally agree...

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Seriously, the less you think about what women are doing with other men, the better. Focus on what they are doing with you and maximizing that. After sleeping with countless women in various situations you will learn that it is close to impossible to tell if a woman is a "slut" or whatever. The best medicine is to sleep with them as early as possible.

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Fury, I appreciate your reply and generally I'd agree. However the purpose of this post was not to "think about what women do with other men". I wanted to raise attention to the simple fact that men are acting as pussies and in return women don't hold any respect for them.

Look at the relationship section. Just look at it. How many threads are there where they give the guy advice that his girlfriend is an attention-whore slut who needs to be dumped? I see this as an issue that needs to be addressed because the real cause is that guy has no idea how to please his woman, has no idea about the general dynamics of the relationships and the other guys who comment this nonsense there also have absolutely no clue about how harmful these kind of advices are.

This is why I posted this. To raise attention. I could give a fuck anyway my relationship is perfectly harmonic, it's been a long time since I've had issues with getting women, however I'm still in this community to give back value, and now with all the PUA materials and PUA wannabes out there I see this issue is getting bigger and bigger by each passing day. I may have not chosen the best way to communicate what I wanted because everyone is just concnerned with the term "slut" and I have absolutely no idea why most of what else I say is being completely ignored.

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