Day 169 of challenge (Tuesday October 22nd)

Text Game - texting and Flaking (Read full article http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/22/tues ... text-game/)

I didn't do much game related today, just work, so I'm going to talk about something else. Lately I've had a few girls flaking on me, most times a girl flakes its due to the initial interaction being weak. However these times its due to a number of reasons, one girl has been sick for a while, which I genuinely believe, another is funny with me catching me kiss another girl. I wont show all of them.



What do I first text a girl
The first thing I normally text a girl, is related to how I met her. Its important the girl knows why you are texting her, so about meeting her. Sometimes I even go straight for the meetup in the first message, providing we talked about it in the initial interaction. The first message should normally be a statement, try to avoid questions. When I ask questions often I will just simply remove the question marks, as if I am telling her. Sometimes Its hard to communicate the way you are saying something over text.



Emoticons
In general I avoid using too many emoticons, as it seems very needy. When I do use them, its because the girl has been using them alot, this is just mirroring her emotions. I will also use them if what I am
saying its hard to interprate and a emoticon helps that. Its fine to start using emoticons after the girl is very invested, but when you are the one doing most of the texting, stay away from it.



Flakiness
When a girl flakes on you it can mean she has a genuine excuse, but in lots of cases its due to her not being invested enough. Girls will often flake on you for seemingly no reason, but this is normal. The best thing to do is to not fight back with logic, but to just leave it and re-engage her later, in a few days, if she is flaking on you all the time, take even longer and show less investment. In text game I think flakiness is unavoidable, it will always happen, here is an example to the left.



How long should you wait before you reply
This is a very funny subject, if you respond too soon in some cases you will come off as needy. Where as if you take too long to respond, the girl may lose interest. In general I take as long or a little longer than she does to reply. But don't rely on this, because a girl might pick up on this if you do it too much. Sometimes replying instantly, then take a day to reply can work really well, as the girl we be left on her feet.



Persistence

"The art of love is mostly the art of persistence". There are occasions where a girl just wont reply no matter what you send her, and just not texting her ever again will blow you out. Then after sending another message/s she reply's. There have been occasions where a girl was really cold in text messaging, but in person she was really invested. The way I look at it is you have nothing to lose, if a girl doesn't reply and doesn't like you, sending her a text isn't going to leave you with any less. But if a girl is interested, but for some reason she didn't reply, sending her another text message is the way to go.

The main goal

Remember the main goal when texting a girl, is to get her on a date. So you can see her again, Hiding behind your phone may feel better as you don't have to put as much on the line, but this gets you no-where.



Bradicus out

Day 170 of challenge (Wednesday October 23rd)

Melbourne Road-trip

Departing 8am Wednesday morning, me and a bunch of guys went on a road-trip for the upcoming RSD free tour for Thursday. We left Wednesday as their was an inner circle dinner with Julien and Alex from RSD. The trip there took longer than expected. I was drinking 2L of chocolate milk on the way up for energy. So after missing a few highways, etc, we literally just got to the meeting location in time,



Meeting RSD Julien and Alex
(See full field report, including phots with Julien and Alex (Wednesday October 23rd), Meeting RSD Melbourne Roadtrip | Field Reports with Bradicus)

Never meeting anyone from RSD I didn't know what to expect. But these guys were pretty cool. Julien had a really intense stare when he first looked at you, Alex was very friendly and chatty. I ended up sitting next to Julien, with Alex right beside him, we got a photo. Julien had alot of green tea, however he couldn't handle the spiciness of his food, and didn't finish it, it was mild at best. Alex started filming an infield video on his phone, and started recording them filming it with my phone, ill be uploading the Melbourne video when I get home to edit it. Julien told us an interesting story which involved him having sex with a girl near a window. The girl ended up putting her leg though the window and cutting all of her leg while having sex. Julien patched her up, and they continued to have sex afterwards, even after she was all cut up. It was Juliens brithday the following day however, we were not able to convince him to come out to celebrate as he had other commitments aka work.



First Night in Melbourne

The general gist of the night was I have to pull or leave before 12, The General and Deej, literally had to pull as they have no accommodation at all, so they can sleep. So Literally 5 mins after walking off from the restaurant after Alex and Julien left, I opened a one set from behind whom was walking home from work. I got her number and kissed closed her, however it was a very short kiss, she said I was too drunk, however I hadn't had a single drink. She was convinced I had to be drunk to do what I did, as if no-one would have the confidence otherwise...

After this we went to some bar, where I opened a girl whom I deem very attractive, I got interest from her, however she would not give her number.... We went to a few more bars, Roof top bar, where The General opened a set, and I got a girls number from that set, logistics were really shit so nothing happened. Tonight a key thing I noticed that 90% of the girls were not locals.... This was weird, all of them were overseas or interstate. I number closed some girl from Holland, but blew myself out by taking the generals advice to kiss her ear, then stare her down.

At the last bar, there were a scarcity of girls..... I opened some girl with 4 guys around her. She was uber receptive, I was dancing with her, however her chodey friend was staring at her in jealously, looking as he was about to cry. She insisted she was single, however she noticed he was upset, and ignored after that in loyalty to her friend, or just feeling bad. I number closed another girl whom was with cousin, I wasn't sure what to think of this set, I didn't push it hard enough as I didn't feel like it would work when she was sitting there with her cousin, whom is a guy.

So tonight none of us pulled, Matt C came the closest, The General and Deej ended up sleeping in a tent out the front of some Church. Hopefully today the RSD free tour will be interesting, and interesting enough for me to want to get hot-seat tickets.



Bradicus out

Day 171 of challenge (Thursday October 24th) RSD Free Tour - Running into RSD on bootcamp - Pull to girls hotel
(Read full FR with pics at http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/25/thur ... ull-hotel/)

Start of the day

The day started off slow at my friends house with Matt C, we recorded some videos. Later Matt C left and my friend came over, I needed to help him out with some stuff, which led running really late to the RSD Free Tour.



RSD Free Tour

So I got to the RSD free tour about 30 minutes late, after running like 8 blocks across the city after getting off the tram. Alex was first talking, he spoke about adventures he went on, involving threesomes, lots of money, well of people, in Helsinki, and how its hard to do that in Australia. Lame because we live in Australia, and most of us are not famous either maybe more relevant adventures would be more useful to hear, but I do understand he wants to tell interesting stories.


Next Julien came up, his whole speech fit what I had expected, he is sure commanding. He spoke about having to stop validation, and not making about the points etc. I think this was targeted at what I said to him yesterday at the dinner, I mentioned I am in a competition on my local group, and we get points for lay and make-outs. He spoke about this is bullshit, and its good at first, but you need to move away from it, and he used to do it all the time. To the point where he would only pull to get points and to write the girls name down, without enjoying the process.

He also talked had some interesting infield videos, and did a cool exercise that made everyone very relaxed and open, but was really to open everyone up to go on the hot-seat. It was fun, I am very likely to go on the hot-seat at this point. Later Big D spoke to Julien, there is a photo alongside here.


Spice market
Later our group went back to the car and drank some goon. This was a shame as I was in such a good state from the free tour, drinking would put it to waste. We decided to goto spice market, which had the most amazing environment of any club I have seen so far. Straight away me and Matt C were in a few sets, soon I wondered off and kissed some girl and soon lost her. I bumped into RSD Alex in the toilets, he said he wanted to see me approach as he was intrigued about what he had heard about me at the dinner.

I was messaging one one of the girls I number closed last night, the plan was she was coming here to see me. I wanted to approach as much as possible before she came though. Soon The General and Deej were in the club, everyone was here... I had a few sets with General, then I noticed Big D in a set, RSD Alex jumped in, the girl didn't show him much interest and he walked off. She looked my way and smiled and called her over and spoke to her for a bit. I wouldn't compare myself anyway near RSD Alex's level, I assume he walked off as he had other commitments on his boot-camp. I got alot of interest from this girl, but I never ended up re approaching her as I went outside to meet the girl I planned to meet.

So as I saw her outside, she was completely under-dressed for the venue, and she could not get in. We went for a short walk, and I ended up getting upto her hotel room. Had sex with her, wasn't really that good, I wanted to escape and get back to Spice Market, but she didn't want me to leave. I told her I needed to use the toilet, and I just left.



French Canadian Stripper

After I left the girls hotel and got back to Spice Market, everyone was leaving at it was closing.... Ended up derping around for ages, pissing some girls off really hard in Maccas. On the way back to the car, me and The General almost pulled a French Canadian Stripper that first finished work. I Approached her, immediately, she made it obvious she was bored and wanted us to hang out with her. The General started gaming her, and I stepped back, the thing I did wrong here was step back, she was down for both of us. The General was kissing her and fingering her. She was showing some disinterest by walking off. But when we re-approached the whole interaction started again, The General gave me the sign to kiss her. I was a little hesitant as I was sitting back for most part, I went to kiss her, but only pecked her. For some reason we let her go after this, It was an interesting interaction, I would be interested what The General would have to write about this.



Bradicus out

Day 173 of challenge (Saturday October 26th)
full FR Saturday October 26th - RSD Hotseat | Field Reports with Bradicus
Waking up
So I did not sleep long at all, taking LSD and MDMA last night, I woke up with an endorphin crash and a sore nose. Anyhow I got ready and walked to the tram stop.

Cutie on the Tram

Girl on tramOn the tram I noticed a hot girl sitting down, a really hot girl. Normally on public transport I would just not approach. But for fucks sake im going on a convention on how to get women, this is what I do. So I sat down next to her and just starting shooting the shit. Straight away I just assumed she was Greek, this is something I noticed without realising really easy, as its transitions into the rings routine really well. Being a routine about Greek gods, Greek girls can relate to it easily. I used it on her, she was a little uneasy, this is because she was a high-school student. But she was still 18, and gorgeous. This went no-where, she was keen to go on a date, but there was no point as I was in a rush to get to the hot-seat and I had not free time before I leave on Monday.



RSD Hotseat
So I arrived at the RSD hotseat, RSD Alex noticed me, which was nice, I had a little chat with him. He read some of my field reports... awesome! He suggested I write in an active voice rather than a passive voice. I don't think im a good write, but feedback is always welcome, I know I havent yet implemented this but I am going to try to do this.

So the first part of the RSD Hotseat, was a bunch of videos of Tyler in set muted, so we focus on the sub-communications. There were 3 examples, bad game, good game, and near-perfect game. Bag game would actually look impressive to an outsider, but in reality it was bad game for the reason there was little to no investment. The good game was better as they were man to woman, closer, more investment, he was very relaxed. The near perfect game was where he was 100% entitled and managed to pull a girl out of a taxi.

Julien went on about the 4 most important parts of inner game, he calls the 4 pillars of inner game

1. Purpose-able

2. Control

3. Flowing

4. Self-amused



The next stuff was just about the stuff you do in the first half of the night, aka building momentum. I was really tired, and although this stuff was interesting I got a little distracted.

The last part is the part I really liked. The only 3 outcomes you should be in order of importance;

Pull her

Stay in set untill isolated

Number-close if can't pull



The general idea is to have short fun self amusing interactions in the start of the night. In the end of the night, the most important part is having the momentum built up, then sticking it out, and screening for logistics. Then just focusing on isolating, and getting her to the 'location' aka bouncing her. Focusing on this rather than the 'outcome' eg fucking her. Just focusing on how you are going to get her there, without worrying if about the sex. If you manage to pull her to your house, worry about kissing her and escalating then, stop trying to kiss before pulling and physically escalating, as it creates a huge slut defence. Just focus on keeping the girl interested and comfortable while screening for logistics and getting her closer and closer to you're pulling location.



So the biggest thing that hit me, was in my home town I live in town, and I rarely stick out interactions as long as I should, especially later in the night. After seeing Tyler do this, and how objective girls would be, and still pull them it was amazing. I will plan on trying this out back in Adelaide, just getting her to the location, and worry about the rest later. Rather than trying to get her to want me first!!



After the RSD Hotseat
It was about 12.30 before we were able to get in set. This was so late and I had no momentum, plus I felt really tired taking LSD and Eccies last night. But not matter I must stick it out. I bounced some girl to a food place with me, after she kept saying no, but I just followed the process and it actually worked, I number closed her as I wasnt getting any further after this. We later went to a club, that was really packed, I got really uncomfortable going from nothing to a really busy club with no build up. I opened none the less but could not hook.

Later we went to Chapel st, went to a fancy bar, I got was in set with a solid 9, I had her hooked but blew it by going for the kiss to early... Falling back into just going for makeouts... Where I should have just focused on keeping it 'flowing' and 'control'. We left the club for a bit and couldn't get back in.


Girl I bouncedBy this time it was really late, I found a girl alone. I screened for logistics, she was alone, and apart from her friends. Okay everything was clear, however there was no pulling location, so I decided if I could get her to come to a random place with me I would be following the 'process'. I did this really well, We decided to goto a random club, however as we walked in the bouncer kicked me out, and she walked in. There was nothing I could do after this... Cock-blocked by the bouncer....



After this I went back to my friends hostel and slept on the floor, and I didn't want to catch a taxi to the place I was staying at. At the current time I still have not gone home, and am at an internet cafe in town still.



Bradicus out

Day 174 of challenge (Sunday October 27th)
Read full FR at Sunday October 27th
I crashed on my mates floor at a hostel, used a shirt as a pillow…. Continues from Previous Field report.



RSD Hotseat Julien Part 2

Before the hotseat started RSD Alex went through his party mix video 201x, after I asked to see it!



He went through like every scene, after a bit Julien interrupted him to do his hot-seat.



First he spoke about day-game. One thing I found interesting is he said the outcomes are exactly the same in order of priority;

1. Pull her

2. Stay in set until isolated

3. Number close if cant pull



You pull in day game by mostly finding girls that have nothing to do all day, and take them on an instant date, then baby step them to your pull location. One key thing is you need to be more calibrated as being too forceful in day is more likely to blow you out.

He spoke alot about Pressure on then Pressure off.

When the girl looks bored turn the pressure on; strong eye contact, getting closer, acting more dominant etc

When girl starts to looks uncomfortable turn the pressure off; stepping back, looking away more, statement of empathy, changing the topic etc

Repeat this until her buying temperature is high enough to take the next step, eg bounce her somewhere else ultimately pull her.



He spoke about how to approach girls, most guys will try to stop a girl by standing in-front of them, if they don’t stop they wont persist. Julien said about 30% of girls wont stop. The key thing to do is to walk with them for a bit, get them to invest, until they are compliant to stop.

He also said much like night-game you need to build momentum before you are likely to pull, key ways to do this;

-Talk to everyone

-Merge your sets

-Move around



The biggest thing I took from the Hot-seat was about the ‘Process’. You cant expect to be outcome independent to a girl you are really attracted to at first when you start. There are limited ‘hot’ girls to practice on. So practicing on any girl is the key. At the end of the night, go through the process of pulling a girl on anyone, you don’t actually have to fuck them. So when you do get a really hot girl, you don’t become needy and you know what to do from reference.



At the end Julien showed us some videos of him being a god basically. He goes on about how you only need to be sex worthy to fuck a girl. There is a certain level of sex worthiness then a girl will fuck you. But Julien likes to take this long and beyond this to the point where the girl has to beg him for it. He does this by stripping the girl of validation, challenging her, and misinterpreting everything she says as her chasing him. It only works since he is really self-amused and isn’t outcome dependent.

In one video he gets a girl to call him master, Greek god, tells her to bark like a dog and call herself dog. Then takes it to the extreme and tells her to get on her knees and beg him, before he will even kiss her. She refuses, he basically goes off and kisses another girl in-front of her, and she ends up basically doing anything for him. This only works as at first it seems playful, and the girl keeps going hoping to get validation. After a bit though it gets to the point the girl will lose less value having sex with him, than leaving him. Its pretty crazy!



After Hot-seat

We got a cab to a club that was apparently pretty good, however we never got in. We did all this to just catch a cab back to the city, then ultimately I went home, since there was no-where to go.



Bradicus out

Day 175 of challenge (Monday October 28th)
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/29/rsd-road-trip-video/

Just got home today, here is a video of the Melbourne RSD Road Trip;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFIJF5n7fMc


Here are the Field reports;

Wednesday

http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/24/wedn ... -roadtrip/

Thursday

http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/25/thur ... ull-hotel/

Friday

http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/27/frid ... p-on-acid/

Saturday

http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/27/satu ... d-hotseat/

Sunday

http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/28/sund ... tseat-p-2/



Bradicus out

Day 176 (Tuesday October 29th)
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/29/tues ... ity-crash/

Reality Crash

Today a few girls found out about my blog, the reactions were not too great as one would expect. I was hit hard when the girl I had been seeing gave me a call and told me she had seen it. She told me she didn’t want to see me again.

My reality came to a crash today, when I came to the realization that I may have hurt someone I genuinely care about. There is no coming back from what happened, I enjoy writing field reports, and am on a constant journey to improve myself. At the moment I feel torn, part of me wants to stop writing in light of everything that’s happened.

However I am going to continue, as I didn’t write all of these field reports to stop now. Contacting her wont change anything that happened. I don’t want to leave her feeling like someone used her, I do genuinely care for her. I wouldn’t want to leave somebody in this state, so I will attempt to contact her in the hope that she won’t feel as badly about the field reports. I accept that I’m probably never seeing her again.



On another note I did go out today with Big D and Pluki and open some sets in the mall, after being inspired by Julien. All of it was really for self-amusement, and we weren’t there long enough to get much momentum so no out-comes came of it, but that is okay.



Bradicus out

Day 177 (Wednesday October 30th)
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/10/31/wedn ... xperience/

Reference Experience

Day Game

Me Pluki and Big D decided to go out for some day game after getting some food in the mall. Today’s focus was different from normal, after watching Juliens hotseat my view has changed. Today the goal was to just get reference experience. Saw some girl on the phone went over to her repetitively telling her to hang up the phone. She asked why, normally I would say something that would be likely to blow me out here, not because of what I said but the way I probably said it. This time I just told her it was really important and repeated saying “2 seconds”, soon as she looked uncomfortable, I asked her who she was talking too (taking pressure off). She told me her friend, I then said “shes your friend she will understand, hang it up”.She then said to her friend “ill call you back in 2 seconds”.

She then asked me what was so important, I simply just asked her name. Crazy enough she didn’t seemed annoyed she was happy to talk to me, after talking shit too her for a bit, I felt like taking it further and letting my friends talk to shit to her too. I then just held my hand out and said “come meet my friends”. Without waiting for her reply, she then gave me a small amount of resistance, saying oh I have work really soon, I just said “they are right over there it will take 2 seconds”. She complied, my friends then started talking shit too her, it actually got us all in state. She actually stood there for ages. Untill Pluki told her to go away… Don’t worry she did find it amusing.



In another set I opened 2 girls selling stuff for charity or something. After a bunch of self amusement, Pluki attempted to try to merge sets, something that really hit me in Juliens videos. When interactions get boring start merging sets. Pluki pulled a random girl in telling her to come meet his girlfriend, she walked off though, but she almost came in. Although she didn’t come in, knowing that it has potential to work really well was enough.

We did a few more sets, but didn’t stay around long enough to get any real outcomes, other than following the ‘process’.



Night Game – Trying a new way

So we headed out tonight, only wanting to work on the process. Strangely enough, before we even knew it 2 girls were hanging off me and Pluki, even though we were showing little to no investment. Even though I disqualified myself pretty hard, telling her I had a girlfriend, but after I brought it back it a bit justifying it by saying I want to break up with her. She wanted me to buy her drinks, I told her to beg me for them. She didn’t ask me for drinks again lol. Normally Id go out looking for make-outs from the get go, somehow feeling like something I needed to do. I hadn’t kissed this girl so far or tried too, and it literally felt fine, although when we were speaking really close, I could tell she thought I was going to kiss her heaps of times, but Id just tease her and turn my cheek. I did end up kissing her in the end though.

She started screening me for logistics, I sware this was because the frame was set she was chasing me. However to pull her I needed Pluki to pull the friend aswell, this wasn’t a problem as such, but Pluki decided he wanted to stay longer before doing it. We went around and opened more sets, she came over and got jealous a few times. I instant made-out with a girl, and got her number in the mean-time. When it was time to pull, Pluki just left…. . So her friend didn’t let her leave, so I just went around and spoke to more girls. There was a 2 set that agreed to come to my house for an ‘after party’, after speaking to them for like 10 minutes. However I never really committed to it, as the other girl was hanging around making me feel like a dick. Should of pushed it…. For the moment I am just going to work on matching up the ideas from Juliens Hotseat, with reference experience.



Bradicus out

Day 178 (Thursday October 31st)
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/11/01/thur ... g-onesies/

Gaming in Onesies

To drink or not

The night started off we me and Deej, walking to buy some alcohol, I justified this by saying I don't get drunk very much so it isn't a sticking point, at the same time I felt a little bad about what happened in Tuesdays Field report. However I identified this with Deej and we did no buy alcohol, there is no way drinking alcohol help would help in the long term.



Seeking validation

Me and Deej separated from Pluki and Big D, to goto a club we had free entry cards for. It wasn't pumping very well, we opened a few sets, one set I got nothing from, and it gave me that feeling that what im doing isn't okay, this is a bad feeling to have, as it is most likely me seeking validation from the girl. This feeling normally goes away quickly though, state isn't hard for me to build anymore.

Interesting coincidence


We first headed to the normal place we goto Saracens, but first we put on our onesies! I got a snap chat from our bi girl, I opened a long time ago, now me and Pluki have a weird thing going with her. I send her a snap chat with us all in our onesies, she replied saying she like our onesies. As I responded we literally walked past her, both having no idea this was going to happen. We convinced her to come with us, however she had wine, and she wouldn't be able to get in with it, so we helped her drink it.... This is somewhat okay as I wasn't planning on drinking, and after this I didn't continue to drink.

This girl ended up revealing some interesting facts about herself, but ultimately none of us tired anything and she just hooked up with a whole lot of different guys. While at Saracens, a girl tried to get my onesie, offering me money. I used this to get her outside, however when she realised I wasn't giving her the onesie she rushed back inside, my intent wasn't aligned with the way I was acting.... Another similar thing happened with Pluki in the toilet, a girl took him to the toilet to get his onesie. Big D later pointed out that the girl from Tuesdays FR, was here, she was with another guy. Big D and Pluki stopped them, while Deej pulled the guy away, leaving me to talk to her. I didn't really want to do this but I did anyway, it was awkward and strange, she just walked off.



Failed pull

Later we went to another bar, where 2 girls came over and opened me, saying that I look familiar. This obviously due to me opening them at some stage, I kind of ignored them and they walked off. However they came back over and spoke to us again, this time with another girl. Pluki and Big D spoke to the 2 girls. While the other was standing on the other side awkwardly, on her phone. I knew she was just about to walk off not being part of the conversation, however she was on the other-side of them, and speaking through the group would not work. I got her attention reached out and pulled her over, and took her too a couch. Pulled her on my lap, I used the whole pressure on and off that Julien spoke about. Quickly she tried to kiss me, I pulled back and teased her but kissed her. However I messed up, trying to pull her very quickly, she was keen to be pulled as she was gaming me for logistics, but when I tried to pull her out like 10 minutes after talking to her. Her friends pulled her away didn't see her again, not even so much as a number...



French Girls
Last major set I was in, was a bunch of French girls whom came over to take photos of me in my onesie, they were very physical off the bat. 2 of them at the time looked so similar, this is where it got confusing. I was gaming one of them, organizing an after party, after kissing her. However after I came back I mistook her for her friend, which blew me out....





Bradicus out

Day 179 (Friday November 1st)

6 pulls to house in one day
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/11/02/frid ... e-one-day/
Date-Day

Organised a date today with a girl I met with The General when I was really drunk, I only spoke to her very briefly. I organise to meet her relatively close to my house, as she arrived I gave her a nice warm hug, her hug was very welcoming, nothing uncomfortable. Firstly I don't remember what I talked to her about when I first met her, so I kept this in mind. After about 5 minutes I pulled her in as I was leaning against a tree. She seemed okay with this, started talking slower, more like man to woman. Soon as I sensed she wanted to kiss me, I kissed her, eg she was looking at my lips expecting the kiss. I made it clear I lived very close to where I met her. She was okay to come over, however she needed to renew her parking, but neither of us had change, so we went on a little drive. After she parked we went upto my house.

We walked up and my house-mates where there, quickly introduce them, then just walked to my bedroom, she followed. I sat down in my chair, discussed with her what movie we should watch. Pulled her onto my lap on the chair, started heavily making out with her. Then we moved to the bed, we didn't look at the movie being played for even the slightest amount of time. I first took off my shirt, knowing she would more likely give me resistance if I went straight for her clothes. When she was comfortable with me with little clothes on, I started taking hers off, after turning her on, you get where this goes. Ill be meeting up with her again later.



Night

Mates Birthday

Went to a mates birthday at a pub I am not keen on, but strangely enough I was opening sets really well, and having really good interactions. I suspect this is due to me being around people unfamiliar with game, and aren't confident to do it, so when I do it around them I feel more in control. Where as when I am with my regular friends, its much more competitive. So after talking to like everyone here feeling really good I headed into town.

Chasing down The General

When I got to town, I spoke to a girl whom loved video games after parking my car, she was fucking awesome, but her boyfriend came to fight me.... I then went meet up with The General, which led to me going on a wild goose chase, as he was running a bootcamp, and wasn't checking his phone. When I did find him he was leaving with a girl.... I ended up just walking all the way over the other side of town, waste of time... I met up with my house mates, and a 16 year old beast! I found out 2 of 3 of them pulled tonight, its strange whenever they hang around the 16 yr old PUA they always pull. He has alot to teach us.



Stripper

I opened a stripper walking past, she was welcoming, but wouldn't stop, and told me to come walk with her. Thing was I had to jump in her frame, she simply just wouldn't jump into mine. She made me come with her to get food, started leaning on me getting really comfortable, she started mentioning she was going soon, I started telling her to come to an after-party, she was partially sold. However silly me told Pluki where I was, he came and also talked to her, him coming from the frame of just wanting to mess around. He was on a different wavelength to me, so I just stopped talking to her, she didn't come to the after-party.

Triple Pull

Later Big D Went to meet with a girl, with 2 other not so attractive girls, we all went, after a bit, me and Jordan starting yelling after party at them. Me and Jordan went to walk off, and he told me not to look back, just to act like we knew they were coming, good advice. They did come, this was all for Big D, as I wasn't really interested in either of the 2 other girls. We got them back to the house, Big D took his to his room, while 16 yr old PUA took one, and me and Pluki just spoke shit to another. I ended up just going to bed after a bit.



Bradicus out

Day 180 (Saturday November 2nd)
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/11/03/satu ... age-night/

Just an average night out with the boys


Went out with my boys Big D and Pluki, whom where building the momentum quite quickly in a 2 set, Big D sacrificed his girl to me for a bit. I later bumped into Matt C, however I ran into a girl in a mario costume whom offered me to come for shesha, this shesha was really strong, and I felt a little light headed. The conversation started to die out, and The General was on a bootcamp, so I decided to go to take photos for him. However by the time I got there they had gotten a taxi to the other side of town…. Ended up walking up the mall with Matt C, whom was stopping girls really well. We did a funny open, where I stopped 2 girls put one on the phone with Matt C, then used that to talk to the other girl. Matt C was up the road, then he jumped in the set for real. Was a fun way of getting in state. We then went to meet up with one of Matt Cs girls whom had 2 really hot friends.

Brazilian girls

Matt C noted he said I should slow play it, this makes sense as the girls are foreign. Plus Matt C is with one of them, he didn’t want me doing anything too crazy. I ended up having a few beers while with them, nothing too crazy. I was getting most interest from the smaller one I think, so I ran the rings routine on her, knowing its a good way to get the girl comfortable with your touch. Later Big D and Pluki came in guns blazing, but they soon left off after they realised I was in set with Matt C for ages.

Later we went to few more clubs with them, bumped into Chris101, left the set for a bit to open more girls, I merged a few sets here, and got 2 numbers, not solid though, but fun. Getting later in the night, I took the decision to just number close the target I was in set with for ages, and head back to the main part of town, meeting Pluki and Big D. Not alot happened, however I hooked a really hot married girl in-front of her boyfriend whom she is engaged too, and somehow I managed to dismantle him. While talking to her up very close and holding hands, she was loving it.

Ultimately went home soon after this after blow outs, The General pulled some girls to the house, later and I let him in, however the girl he wasn’t with was already with a guy, but he was a chode and she was clearly not interested. I decided not to try anything here as I didn’t want to blow out my mate.



Bradicus out

Day 181 (Sunday November 3rd)
Sunday November 3rd - Turning an awkward date into self amusement | Field Reports with Bradicus
Turning an awkward date into self amusement

So today I was bored and went on a date with a not so good looking girl, she came over to my house. I had really no intention of banging her, soon as I came in I introduced her as a name that wasn’t hers, to see how far I could push it. Funnily enough she didn’t seem worried. I demanded her to say sorry to Big D, for taking his beanie, after a bit The General took me out the house on the pretense of having a ‘talk’ with me.

In reality I just left to get out, little did I know while I was gone, Big D and Pluki were creating a fuck tonne of drama with the girl, as a consequence of me leaving her with them. First they told her my real name was Lional, and that I was a closet homosexual, and I created a new persona as a cover as an escape. They also mentioned that I never communicate with people, and they have never really spoken to me as I am always closed off. Then they started mentioning that they think it all stems from an abusive childhood. They started pushing for her to stay with me to comfort me when I get back. When I got back little did I know what was about to happen.

I came in energetic, but everyone seemed so serious, starting at me. They then mentioned that they told her my ‘real’ name, and she added “why did you lie to me”. I added to the drama, saying that’s what my dad called me, and im ashamed of it, as we didn’t get along. She then started trying to comfort me straight away, I spoke about how my dad used to beat me. Then we started talking about why I am hiding who I really am. Pluki adds that he thinks its a persona I create when im drunk to fit in. I start to add how I like to take drugs, and drugs is real life for me. I then have an argument with my housemates, about how they don’t know how it feels, and they need to take drugs to understand.

The girl gives me a lecture about having to change my ways, and now I can step away from my dad and make my own decisions. I go on to say I cant communicate with people when im not taking drugs, as we aren’t in the same world. Soon The General takes me to the bedroom for a ‘chat’. As we are in there he starts to talk loudly suggesting we about to have sex, like asking if I have a condom. Soon I call the girl into the room, she starts to try to clean my room, then The General adds “don’t clean too much, my underwear is on the floor”. She asks why and Big D says awkwardly “didn’t you know, they are…” this is were she started to get really weird. Then General talks about how he feels rejected that a brought a girl here and he wants alone time with me, and that he wants to share some new toys he bought with me. Big D then says “should we…” insinuating they should go, and the girl jumps straight on it “yes we should go”.

As she left Big D told her to try to help me when she can, she sent me a message later telling she is here for me if I need her. This was really self amusement, but maybe we took it too far!



Bradicus out

Day 182 (Monday November 4th)
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/11/05/mond ... ls-day-2s/
Most of my pulls are from day 2′s

Recently It has come to my attention that a significant amount of my pulls are from day 2′s alone, when compared to my mates, whom almost solely pull from same night pulls (same night lays). I had a think of why this may be, it may be because when i’m not on day 2′s i’m with mates and I might act differently. Or alot of the time I simply lose the girl to a cock-block or an anti slut defense, eg the girl is with her friends. Either she doesn’t want to be seen leaving with a guy in-front of them, or the friends literally wont let her go.

When I first started going on dates (day 2′s) I would rarely pull from them, however I have been on alot, and now I am extremely comfortable with them, I would say that recently I have been pulling from most day 2′s, which is a significant improvement. A few reasons, I live in the city, so logistics are sorted, my texts are straight to the point, get them on the date. Now I try to meet girls really close to my house, so getting them back requires little movement.



How most of my day 2′s happen

The way I have been generally doing it,when I first meet them show alot of intent, end up number closing them as I can’t pull them for different reasons, try to plant the seed we will meet again before leaving. Texting them quite soon later, within a few days, straight out saying we are going to meet again. If they reply, I find out their schedule and organise a time not to distant away. When I meet them I greet them with a big hug, if they are receptive to the hug generally it means they start with a higher buying temperature, if they hesitate with the hug it means I have more comfort to build.

Usually I start it off relaxed, when the girl seems focused on me for a bit, ill take her hands at some point. Getting closer to her as long as she seems compliant, if she isn’t ill just take a step back. Ill slow down my speech and speak to her really close to her face after I know she is hooked, after a bit ill talk about something that will give me an excuse to bring her to my house, eg talk about her favorite tv show, or talk about swimming. Kiss her for a bit, turn it on, then use what I spoke about before to get her over, aka watch some tv.
Anyway so to my actual date…

Date

I got a girl on a day 2 that I met months ago, normally after months it’ll be too late, however it might be due to the extreme drama that happened that night that kept her interested. Aka her friend chasing us down when I was pulling her to stop me. So I met her a few minutes from my house, as I got there she was with a friend, but as they saw me her friend immediately walked off. As if she was told to leave, this was a good sign as the girl I was going on a date with wanted to be alone with me.

So first thing I did was hug her, was a massive hug, so that was good. I sat opposite her at a table, we started chatting, I noticed her eye contact was really strongly on me. I mentioned this to her, she said shes normally bad at eye contact, this was definitely another sign she was interested. I started teasing her about her rings, and this gave me a chance to touch her hands, after some keeno, I did a little test I like to do, when you are holding a girls hand, release momentarily, pulling your hands back a little, if she keeps holding your hands she is likely okay with it, note its much easier to tell if shes interested by just looking at her eyes.

So I knew the next step was to get closer and to slow down my speech, I just stood up and sat next to her as I was sitting opposite, I didn’t explain why I moved I just did it, she expected this as she moved her bag as I stood up. After I sat down, I placed her arm around my shoulder. I did this as it almost as if shes making the move and not me, making her feel like shes contributing. While she was talking I just started at her eyes and down at her lips, I could tell she wanted to kiss me, as she reacted and stopped talking, while not backing off, I moved my head a little. She went to kiss me, and cheekily said to her, wait I only wanted to kiss your cheek, but sure.

I went on to tell her about my favorite shows and boast about them, I got her to invest in the tv shows, and get interested in them. Then I went back to kissing her, after a bit I used this to get her to my house to watch them TV shows, note I gave it a little time in-between so it didn’t seem to her like I was only talking about that to get her to my house. There was a little token resistance, when I brought up going to mine, I then just changed the subject and said i’m going to make myself some food. Then took her hand and led her off, as we got to my house she said she was surprised how easy I got her to my house.

So we went to my room, put on the TV show, needless to say we weren’t watching the TV, she was a pretty solidly attractive girl, really good body too. It is highly likely Ill be seeing her again.



Bradicus out

Day 183
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/11/06/day- ... ach-girls/
Approach – More day game

So lately I have been thinking I really need to do more day-game, here are some things I am going to do.

-Approach girls on my break at work.

-Approach girls on way to and way from work and places I go on the day.

-Set at least one extended session for just day game a week. In this session ill approach multiple people not necessarily just women, merge sets, build momentum.



Wednesday Daytime 6th November

Approach 1

While I was on break, I was sitting there wondering if I should approach a girl or not, as I only had a few more minutes after break. Then I noticed a girl called me over, it was the girl I was seeing for a bit before she found my FR’s. I soon left went to the toilet, noticed she was gone after, and approached the girl sitting down, I spoke to her for about 10 minutes. I made some friendly remarks about things I noticed about her, she seemed receptive, number closed her. This isn’t a big deal itself, but I need to get the ball rolling for day approaches again.

Approach 2 - Ukrainian girl

As I got the the bus stop to get home, I noticed the bus was just taking off, a foreign looking girl stopped the bus, I wasn’t going to stop it myself, I was just going to let it go past. I mentioned this to her, and sat down with her. After hearing her accent, I guessed she was Russian, she was Ukrainian but they are very similar. I spoke Russian to her, she could understand it. We had a light fun conversation, I didn’t get her number or attempt to as I wasn’t focusing on getting anything. I was just focusing on getting back on top of approaching in the day when I want.



Bradicus out

Day 185
http://puaaustralia.com/2013/11/08/thur ... ysco-girl/
Beginning of night

The night began relatively normal, this was my mates last night out who is going back to England in a few days. We and a bunch of lads met with him, he was with a pretty hot girl. Started opening like normal, made out with some girl. I mentioned to her I had a tab of acid I’ve had in my wallet, I was planning to take, ended up taking it. Started feeling quite cold, went home and put a onesie on with Deej, then came back, spoke to her for a bit longer, then I moved off.

The acid trip

So after taking the LSD, I was awaiting the tab to kick in, in the meantime I was just opening sets as usual. It didn’t just hit me all of a sudden, it happened rather slowly. I was in a big German set for a while, however when they started to get a little bored of me, I’d bring in more people to the group, aka merging sets. This went on for a while, where it would just happen naturally, where people would flow in and out of the group I was talking too. The key here is I wasn’t ‘seeking’ out my next target to talk too, rather everything was just flowing. It got to a point, where one girl was just following me around literally everywhere. Normally I would see this is oh fuck shes going to cock-block me, but rather I used it too my advantage, depending on the situation I was in. Eg when a girl had a bitch shield, id be able to use her to defuse it, or if there was a guy there that wasn’t happy.

Epiphany

The huge thing tonight, was I wasn’t seeking out talking to anyone, basically the whole club was just one big set, where as the night went on I could use everything that happened previously in the night to fuel me forward. The problem is though, I was on acid, and somehow taking acid turned me 100% away from the outcome, this allowed me to merge sets like it was nothing, and everything was effortless. However I am able to identify what happened, and why it worked so well, at the time I wasn’t wanting anything to happen, it all just happened. Now I know how good it feels to have real state, and well it works, it’ll be like I want it to happen, aka chasing that state, since I’m wanting to to happen it might not happen as freely as the only reason I got too it was not seeking it.

Physco girl pull

After the buying temperature starting going up, results starting coming, I wasn’t looking for them. A girl just came upto me and started talking to me, while I was off having fun. It was a girl I tried to pull previously never number closed her, after we discovered this she jumped on me and kissed me. However later I saw her kissing another guy, normally this could get to me, but at the time it was nothing, her friend was there with me, and I used to, get her friend on my side. While this all happening there was a girl coming upto me trying to get my attention constantly. This in turn made the girls friend try to seek my attention to more and more. To the point where she just turned it completely on to get the other girl away from me. She starting kissing me and giving me hand on the dance floor.

At this point I actually didn’t care, It was just funny, but there was a feeling for me to get out, as she was sucking some of the fun out of me. But at the time I thought this will be good reference, I mentioned to her I live really close. She didn’t believe me, I didn’t feel the need to prove it too her, but I just walked out, knowing she would follow, that she did. Normally on the walk home Id try to turn it on more with the girl, however it was obvious to me I had already won the girl, there was no point, so I just started general chit chatting. The reaction I got was funny, the girl was like wtf we are going to your house and you are talking about ‘this’, are you gay? Its because I knew I already had her, and there was nothing I needed to do, and this probably got too her.

As we got back to my house, The General was in my bed with his hot girl from earlier, at this point me and The General tried to push for a 4 way. Instead she just pushed me into my mates room, and basically raped me… She was crazy, and very violent, she even headbutted me. After she left, she came back with her friend to get something she left. This was the same friend that I originally kissed that went off with another guy. Soon as I opened the door she jumped on me and kissed me, while the girl I pulled stood there angrily, while I gave back her stuff, at this same stage, my boys Pluki and Big D were arriving home.



Bradicus out