Hi everyone,

Question 1
Tonight I took a girl to Starbucks. She was behind me in line (as we were talking). She pulled a $10 from her purse. I told the guy I wanted a small coffee. He rang me up. I asked her what she wanted. She chose tea. He rang us both up. I gave the guy my card. She seemed a bit surprised and put her $10 back in her purse.

I'm not trying to be cheap -- I just don't want to fail any innate supplicating tests she has. She I have ordered and paid for mine and than just let her do the same? Or was it okay that I did that?

Question 2
She asked me what I do for fun -- I drink with buddies on weekends and shoot pool from time to time but I didn't think either was a great answer so I told her I liked exercising and watersports.

What's a good answer to that question?

Thank you in advance

Both of these things sort of come down to you being your own person.

1. What do YOU think about who should be paying for Starbucks?
2. What do YOU think is fun to do at weekends?

Don't mould yourself to fit the girl because that'll soon wear off in the long run. Be your own person and own it, it's much more attractive.

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1: Yep handled that fine. For a friggen $10 coffee just pay the forst round she can pay the second if there is one, even if she ogfers to pay the first.

2: Um yea bullshit stories catch up with you, unless you just want a one nighter or you're travelling or something. Just tell the truth but put a good spin on it, like "I play pool and always kick ass"

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Cool -- thx for the replies!

First situation: I love it when they do that. I like to say "Meh, I got it. You can get us next time."... I'm a big fan of the dutch system. Gives her a bit of added obligation to make a next time while not making you look cheap or making it seem as if you're buying her attention.

As for the second question. They pretty much nailed it. Name off some hobbies and interests. Maybe tell her what you did the previous weekend. This is such a trivial question. You could tell her you watch loads of porn and people watch from really high up locations using binoculars. As long as you tell her what you want to tell her and own your statement with confidence.

Thank you man -- I def appreciate the response!