| Hey guys!
Just registered today on this forum! Humbled to be here!
Where I'm From: Singapore (Asian country)
Age: 21 as of 2013
Duration into the "game" : I chanced upon Ross Jeffries site in 2012 (found it challenging to follow, did not purchase anything), followed by the book The Game (blew my frigging mind) in mid 2012...so I'd say about a year? However, I haven't really studied any other material.
Pick up methods i like to use:
- I've been going solo (since i got no wing)
- Been only going for women alone
- Opener: Opinion opener/ "Do-you-believe-I-can-guess-your-age/occupation" opener.
- The Cube routine, followed by PEN 15 routine (from Style)
- Mild kino (only manage to go for forearms, shoulders, tummy)
Hobbies/Passion:
- Javelin throwing
- Music making (i can play the Saxophone)
- Working out (jogging / gyming)
- Helping others, making a positive difference in their lives (friends with all sorts of problems like to talk to me about it and i try my best to talk them through. From this i become super sensitive to people's actions, subtle reactions.)
- Community Serive (warms the heart, nourishes the soul)
Goals:
- Be able to go to a 4-set and be comfortable (i crashed and burn in a 4-set before due to an obstacle who knew my routine)
- Be comfortable to approach and be around super attractive women (to me once you have the social skills to be good around them, you can be at ease around any individual of any status.)
- To keep my study grades up as i continue learning this
- To do one approach daily at least
- To be comfortable with club-game (i'm much better at day-game. In clubs, i have difficulty hearing the girls and end up pretending i understand what they're saying by smiling and nodding. I'm at my wits end)
Since my exposure to the book The Game, i was intrigued. 2 months later, i approached a 3-set in Taiwan during my holiday. I hooked up with one of them, met for dinner with her and kiss-closed that very night. We subsequently dated for 7 months. She's 7 years older than i am. Ex-model cum small time actress.
We broke up because she wanted to get married in the next 2 years. I cannot commit.
So far I've dated 4 women, slept with 8. Never had a one night stand. To me, this figure means nothing as I see lots and lots of room for improvement. I fear opening groups and have so far stuck to day-game.
I could use lots of help.
I've always been told to look very innocent and studious : Looking like a geek (perhaps thats why party girls shy from me in clubs?) My personality is far from that. I'm open-minded and spontaneous.
My motto: Life is too short to worry too much.
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A recent approach i did in the railway train while commuting. I was in my military uniform (i'm serving the army), i rarely did approaches in uniform since i felt uncomfortable in it.
Saw a women seated down. There was an empty seat but i didnt take it, i stood nearby, away from her line of sight. She's got the face of a 6, body of an 8, legs of a 9. One train stop went by, I decided to take that seat.
i used a few methods that are quite controversial. Such as not speaking but typing stuff on my phone to open her. And to ask her about her age. I know i've heard people discourage that....but to me showing a women who is plugged in to her device some stuff on your phone can make her dis-engage from her device automatically.
1 second...2 second...3 second...
I turned to her and tapped her arm gently. There was only 3 stops left before i had to get off. ETA 10 mins.
Me: *with a message on my hand phone reading: Do you believe i can guess your age?*
Her: *smiles and remove both ear piece* (1st objective achieved)
Me: But first, tell me if you got a BCG scar? *placed my fingers gently on her supposed scar*
(BCG injection is one done when we are in the sixth grade. It leaves a lump or a crater on your left arm for life. However, it was phased out later. Kids born in 1989 would be the last batch to have it in my country. I got this knowledge through one of the girls i approached before and have been using it in my routine since. This is a useful gauge which helped me guessed correctly most of the time.)
Her: Hmm, yup!
Me: *Meaning she was born before 1990. Since she looked quite young....i guessed 1989* You're 24 this year.
Her: *Amazed, crossed her legs TOWARD me, IOI* Omg, how can you tell??
Me: That's not bad right?? *she smiles and agree, i then DHV by explaining to her that fact i knew*
Her: I had no idea i was the last batch!!
We then engaged in small talk for a few minutes.
She was a freelance model, currently working in a casino to help customers with their bookings and appointments within the hotel.
Me: I've got to get off now, let's stay in touch!
Her: Sure! *number-closed*
For me, even if i didnt number-close while commuting in the morning (which happens), i would still be somewhat satisfied. I brightened someone's morning by engaging in conversation with a stranger. Win-win. _________________ I have jumped at many opportunities before: Life is too short to worry too much.
Better at day-game.
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