hey guys, I was seeing this girl for about 2 years in my area but never spoke to her until yesterday evening while we were walking in after getting off the bus.

I asked her how long she was living out here, she said 2 years...then showed me her house (i pretended i didnt know which house and she had to point it out to me - after describing where it was during our conversation).

anyhow, i told her that she doesnt come outside, and she said she doesnt know anyone in the area (said people have to approach her for her to talk to them)...i told her well i'll change that, and i got her number and said i would SPAM her, while walking away she asked me what my name was and i replied.

after i got home i waited a bit, and saw her SPAM status indicated that she may just be out of a relationship...ï'll be fine without u blah blah stuff lol....i didnt ask her if she was in a relationship or not tho

i spoke to her that night a bit but not about anything excessive, and i havent spoken to her yet today. one thing she told me was that she doesnt have school on wednesdays...and i'll be home on wednesday (not that i told her)...

do you guys have any tips on how to get her to come by me tomorrow, or to get to go by her. maybe watch a "movie" or hang out etc..there is also a cliff near us that alot of ppl go walking to and to sight see etc...do u think i should take her there?

i hope i explained it well enough to u guys. thanks!

I would definitely go the cliff route.

The day before, you can send a "Hey, you mentioned you're off work tomorrow right? I have the day off, lets go do something fun."

She seems to be the shy type but based on your speculation that shes just out of a relationship, I think she'll be receptive to doing "new" and "fun" things. She doesn't want to be stuck in a house all day.

The other thing you can do is the old "1 Hour Date", where you invite her for coffee and make it known that you have 1 hour before you need to work/meet somebody/run errands etc. This way, she won't feel the pressure of possibly having to spend all day with you, plus if she's boring, you have an escape route.

It also puts down HER guard and lets her relax a little. She's just thinking, "its only an hour anyways" OR "Only an hour?!" Either way, its a good, safe way to get in a date (at least the "first date" with a relatively passive girl).

Good luck man.

how old are you?

Obviously about 13....