Hey guys,

I could need some advice here:

For the last couple of weeks I've been seing a girl (HB9) which has to take the same subway train. It is just one station but we have to get on and off at the same stations. She then has to take another train while I have to leave the station in order to get to work. Never got an IOI but I didn't show any interest either (never starred at her or anything...)

Last week I went to a club with some a few coworkers after work and she happenend to be there, too. She saw me having fun with my friends (men and women). After a little while, both of us on the dancefloor, I approached her and simply asked her if she was the girl which I see on the subway everymorning. She said yes and also said she thought she knew me but didn't know from where. We did some brief smalltalk about where she works but then she said she should probably go back to her friends. Probably because I ran out of things to say and it must have become awkward for her. I only said sure, have a great night and smiled. I then turned around and kept dancing with my friends. It didn't matter much anyway as I'd see her again eventually anyway.

This morning she actually happened to run into me while I was standing in the subway train waiting for it to depart. When she walked in I simply said good morning. She looked at me and was like oh hi! how are you with a big smile. She stepped back a little bit (she was about to pass me) so she can stand directly in front of me. We than had small talk but I got the feeling the was interested in getting to know me. Whe then talked all the way through to the next station and got off and walked a little bit towards the next track she had to get to. She kept giving me questions so I couldn't leave right away - but I gave her the impression that I'm about to. I really wanted to be the one who'd say bye this time - so I did eventually. Before I did, though, I asked what her name was, then told her my name, took her hand and said "have a great day [name]" and left.

So now I don't really know how to proceed. I'm not going to see her everyday, which is good I think. Right now I'm just a random, funny and cocky person she runs into every now and then when she goes to work. How long should I wait before I actually proceed to asking her out for coffee? I could also try to build up so much tention that she'd asked me out - is that even possible? lol

Thx for any hints!

You should start kinoing.

Your reports do not seem to include any physical touchy-feely stuff. That is not good. When you don't get physical, to the chick you become this non-sexually-threatening little thing, and they put a "friendzone" label all over you. Which is great if you want a new buddy for your commute.

Since you're here, it must be assumed you want to take her clothes off and perform the deed. To do so, kino is more important than coffee.
Sure, you can ask her to go grab a cup of coffee, but if there is no sexual vibe going on, it won't be any different from the subway station. Get the vibe going. Kino kino kino

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I have doen soooo much conversations with no kino ànd I can tel you that iT really helps!!!!

you mean really helps landing the friend zone? I am sure it does

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nice guys don't get laid
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