today on the street there was a girl that looked absolutely gorgeous. i mean fucking gorgeous.
but her dress was old and wrinkled, and she was wearing these long socks that soccer players wear, and these ugly shoes.
when a girl wears something ugly, what does that say about her (if anything)? it's not that I am superficial and care about what someone wears, I am just wondering how these girls are different from girls that are well dressed.

And i had another question. when you say approach a girl and say something funny/stupid and she smiles and walks away, are you done at that point? can you follow her and say "that was just a joke" and start over, or is that too desperate?

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

Biology and style don't come together. She might be into sports, or simply doesn't have any style. If you dress better than her, you will probably be disappointed in her if you get to know her. So don't waste your time. Clothes tells a lot about a person. It tells you whether she is someone who cares about how she looks, and what status she has in society.

If a girl smiles and walks away, she is probably flattered. But you haven't made enough impression to make her stay. Don't chase her (you must never approach from behind). Instead, stay where you are and talk louder as the dinstance between you increases.

You have to learn the power of the eject or the takeaway.

Girls use this all of the time. Men should use it too. When out sarging, it will be very rare that you will see people or girls only once. Some girls, you will see everyday. Some, you will see every other day. Some every weekend and so on and so forth.

You'll need to be more efficient with your sarging time. For instance, when a girl I open at the 7-11 shows no interest whatsoever, I simply eject and sarge other girls. The next time I see her again, I give her a nonverbal "Hi". When she gives me any approach invitation cue, I sarge her again and escalate.

Some girls will not be into you this week and will be super horny with you next week. When you eject, you have the power. Girls will think, "OMG, did this guy just snobbed me?" This way you become a challenge and girls will treat you better the next time they see you.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

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