| Don't focus on your current situation, it's just temporary. When you have a conversation you should always try to avoid talking about facts like that (just tell her shortly how it is if she asks), because it is a boring subject and doesn't take your relationsship with the girl anywhere. Talk about your life experiences instead, and your goals in life. Girls will find you attractive if you have a clear goal, know what you want and where you are heading. As a spinoff on this, if you know what you want and can stand for it (so you don't change your opinion just because of her), you will pass all shit tests without even knowing it.
What DHV actually means will become clear to you as you gain more and more experience. When you are new to pickup you will have an idea (maybe wrong) about what it means. For instance, some common misconceptions I have encountered are (imagine a guy talking to a girl):
"I have a fast car, a lot of money, a cool job yada yada yada..."
"I am a Pickup Artist, not like all the ordinary people..."
"You are nothing special at all, and don't look that good as you think."
These are all DLVs, mistaken for being DHVs. The corresponding DHVs would be:
"I live in a tent" (told with sarcasm, because you don't have any need to tell her all the things you have).
"Look at that poor guy, calling himself a Pickup Artist, trying to figure out how to come along with women."
"I think you look gorgeous, and that you are quite interesting, not like everybody else. But I have to go to my friends now. You are welcome to join us later if you want."
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