I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I'm 23 years old and want to get back into the scene. I don't have a problem talking to women and picking them up - I'm no expert, but I know it's something I am determined to practice and get good at.

My problem right now is finding and meeting women. My life consists of just waiting for the weekends in which case I only wind up going out one night with my friends to a bar or a club, and none of them do any cold approaching or anything like that. If I strike out on that night out, I have to wait another week. I need a rebound soon, so I don't want to only have 1 chance per week to meet women.

What are some things I could do or places I could go during the week to fix this problem? I work out in my house, should I join a gym?

Everywhere.

But you'll do great in girl rich environments. You can eat your breakfast, lunch or dinner in university canteens. Eat there regularly while smelling good and dressing well and girls will open you just by sitting there and eating your meals.

You can also go to banks to make deposits during certain times and days of the week when a lot of accountants are there fixing up the company payroll.

You can also take refreshments in hospital canteens where nurses and doctors hangout.

During weekends a lot of girls also go to the hair salon. You can get a hair cut one week, a foot spa the next, and a hot oil SPAM the next.

Supermarkets also abound with women shopping for groceries. I've pulled several housewives in supermarkets whose husbands are working abroad in the Middle East.

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My favorite day gaming spot is the indoor climbing gym. That's just me though.

Day game is definitely what you should be doing, or even go out week nights.

What you should be doing more is building up your social circles and just meeting people naturally, then without needing to do cold-approaches.

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Just get out of your house man. There are women all over the place...


If your friends are holding you back when you go out on weekends, go out by yourself. Hell, I wouldn't even be able to tell you how many times I've gone out on my own. I still do it now. Meet new people when you are out. You don't NEED friends to go out with you... It's uncomfortable at first but once you get over the discomfort... You'll actually be alot more successful in pulling because you won't have anyone holding you back. You won't have friends who want to go home or go somewhere else. You won't have your buddies cock blocking you because they don't realize you are just teasing a girl and not being a complete dick head.

And yes... Go out on week nights. I don't know where you are from but if you are near any type of medium sized to large city, there is something going on EVERY night of the week if you do some research.