Hey guys!
Starting today I want to bring some changes into my life 'cos I'm freaking tired of my actual condition.
My life so far is not something I am proud of.I went to many competitions and olympiads but never got higher than 5th place.
I had 2 girlfriends so far, yet I'm still a virgin despite the handjobs and blowjobs I got.
I'm a DJ at my highschool, yet I'm not popular.
I have the same old 4 friends since first grade and it is frustrating that I'm not invited to any parties.[some of my friends, occasionally, are].
I get a decent amount of numbers, but few k-closes.
I'm not an alpha.
I don't get hundreds of likes on facebooks.[usually 30 likes per picture and 2-3 per status].
Girls do not find me attractive due to lack of money, car and probably looks.[but c'mon, I'm not that ugly!]
I'm the one that has to start the conversation with a girl [i'm talking about those i've succesfully opened]
All the girls I've been gaming and k-closed, refused to have sex with me, though they are/were sexually active at that given moment.
I lack self confidence when sober or not with my group.
I tend to exagerate and come out as arrogant when with my group.
I tend to talk to much and bore the girls.
I can't adapt the conversations to the type of girl I talk to.


Even though some things may seem to be interfering and do not have logic, trust me, they have.

I need a plan to radically change my lifestyle, my looks, myself.
What should I do? How should I look, talk, behave, what should I say to get the girls to chase me, how can I escape this sexual urge I'm experiencing, etc??

Calm down man, it's not the end of the world.

It's not that you are not good looking or that you have k-closed some girls but can't move on to the next level. It's that your inner game needs improving. Try to socialize with more people. Don't just talk to girls because all you want is to get laid, have a motive for making friends. Widen your social circle, tell people about your career, tell them that you could use some support.

For the girls you kiss closed, you probably didn't kino well enough. Trust me, when you know how to do it, your life will change big time. Try hitting those girls up again for a drink and Kino escalate and see what happens.

don't worry, it will get better... I never even KISSED a girl until college. 12 years later and I can't even count how many women I have slept with.. I probably lost count 5+ years ago. With that said, you seem to know what you are doing wrong, so fix those issues! If you talk to much, ask them open ended questions and let them answer and talk. Don't confuse alpha with arrogance; an alpha male also knows how to make people feel good about themselves, try complimenting some in conversation with friends etc. (not about things like looks though).

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