So about a month a met this chick in a bar when I was visiting her city. I talked to her for around 30 minutes and she gave me a few really nice copliments during that time and so I asked her for her number and she gave it to me as I told her I was moving to he country for a while in a month.

She is a super hottie. 9.5 or a 10.

So I go back home for 3 weeks and she messages me and i message her regularly. I game her pretty good with that and we arrange to meet up.

First meet she cancels because she is no longer going into the town (she lives outside about 35 mins away) so fair enough even if its a bit flaky. Next night she asks me where I am and tells me she is with her friend in a club. As I have already paid for a table in another club i tell her I cant as I am with my friends at another club but she is welcome to join.

the next week passes..

Next friday she writes me asking me where i am, am I going out so she tells me where she is and thats where we are going anyway. When I turn up her and her friend are heading home as they have drank too much (this was true). She is really touchy feely with me and keeps asking me to write to her tomorrow. She sends me messages from the car on the way home.

Then the next day she asks me what am I doing that night and I tell her where I am going with my friends and she comes along with her friend. We all have a really god night and she tells me SHE HAS TOLD HER MOTHER ABOUT ME. We have some good banter and they go home. There was no chance to isolate.

Then after this we organise to have dinner together on friday, friday lunchtime she cancels because she forgot it was her cousins party but suggests we meet up for a drink after. Later she writes to tell me where she is but doesn't actually ask me to come. So I tell her to join us were we are, she replies that they are hungry and going to get food but she will write me after as to somewhere we can meet. After that she writes me a message saying "we are going to go home now" and i simply reply "ok see you another time" .

Im certainly not going to write her again until she contacts me. I am wondering if the language barrier isnt helping or if I am simply being played! hot and cold!

Get back to me when you find out that she's a lesbian.
If not, then bi-sexual and that's for sure.

Just arrange a nightout to a club with her and her friend and try to escalate, if it didn't work out, she's into her friend. How did I find out? I faced 2 of the same types of girls.

it's never a good sign if you have to ask.

like that guy said on the other forum. if you've been gaming for over two weeks with no result then she ain't interested.