So, I'm trying to get better at texting and at being alpha in general. I recently txt'ed this girl and wanted to see what you guys thought of it, and see if I did good. I want to see if my natural instinct is correct on txting woman. I'm trying to be non-needy, dominant, push-pull, build comfort as well as romantic.

I go into more detail about how I feel about this girl in a bit for now here's the txt.
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She replies with, "Alright, ttyl Yogi bear"

I tried to use a escalation routine with the "are you alone" phrase. When I seem she wasn't into it I changed the subject. She also may hv said she likes cuddling because it DOESN'T involve Sex for a reason. She knows that when I ask her random questions it's usually things we end up doing, so she may be commuinicating to me that she doesn't want to hv sex? She's a virgin. I hv feelings for this girl but don't understand why she wouldn't want to be fully intimate with me; maybe she's just afraid of losing her virginity or something. But my main concern is how do you guys think I did.

Note: IF I'VE ACCIDENTIALLY GAVE AWAY IMPORTANT INFO LIKE NUMBERS OR PERSONAL STUFF IN THESE PICS PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

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Btw, I didn't open with I miss you. She txt'ed me first saying "I miss you" so I just sent you my response.

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Guys, opinions please

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Its pretty fucking sappy.

Looks like what a beta male.would text to his long distance long term girlfriend that is probably cheating on him.

I did use push n pull a bit, but instead of being romantic I should hv been flirty. Your so right dude. I'm seeing her tomorrow I do I fix this and regain my power as an alpha male in the relationship.

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Depends on what you want;
Relationship? I guess you can carry on what your doing, but you wont get laid for a while...
Sex? Switch it up and stop being soppy, she wont even touch your dick for a good while if you carry on like this. Be more sexual asap. If she don't like the sexting shit then next

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Well here's my opinion, she's a virgin and once she has sex she just might not want to stop and hv sex with other guys. Tell me if there's any truth to that.

IMPORTANT: Yes, I'd like a relationship with her but DO YOU THINK THE WAY I TALKED WITH HER SO FAR DAMAGED MY ALPHA STATUS? (I showed Pre-selection a lot, leader of men, that I emotionally stable and protector of loved ones.)

Secondly, in order to fix things you said be more sexual. How do I do that

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She sounded hideous if I'm being honest lol Not bad..

But i would of said " No sex!? Cuddling is dope and all, but sex is like the cherry on the sundae "

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With that whole cuddle thing.. you easily could've just said, "I enjoy cuddling... but only after sex." Or, set the tone a bit better, "Hmm, I like cuddling and making you feel safe.. after you just experienced a massive orgasm."

The whole convo reeked more of some 13 year old frielationship (friend/relationship). There wasn't any sexual vibes... Maybe you should just end up dating this girl and see what happens if you do have strong feelings for her.

Your choice.

Hey man, I read your message, long time! How are you doing?

You won't actually believe what I'm about to say, but the last girl I had feelings for is the EXACT SAME case as yours. She likes cuddling, she's a virgin, things happen when we are together. But no sex, same scenario. She's passionate about everything and listen carefully for what I'm about to say. My last days with her were terrible. I started to act beta and started being needy by wanting a kiss every now and then. When we went out, there was this super-alpha guy who caught her attention, I was the weak one because of my neediness. Whenever we went out, I'd just go over to her and interrupt them from talking to each other and I'd take her outside to my group again. The main reason behind this is because we got TOO attached that my jealousy started hitting the roof.

Every time she flirts with a guy, I interrupt. Every time she talks to a guy, I stand near her to listen. Every time she mentions a guy, I ask about him. Finally, I confronted her with my feelings towards her and BAM, got rejected badly. Even though we had this inseparable bond or whatever you call it.

However, I learned. Here's what I've came up so far on these types of girls.

1) Your text game is going great (just as I used to talk, same as me by the way, unbelievable lol).
2) When you meet, DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT show her that you are jealous.
3) DO NOT under ANY circumstance confront her about your feelings towards her. She'll bring it up anytime soon.
4) You have to sleep with her as soon as possible before you lose her. No need for losing virginity, anal would do the job. Once the sex is established, you're going to notice a completely new attachment from her side. And this is the most important part.
5) Don't always jump for kisses and act needy. Be the first to stop the kiss even though it feels really good. The more you resist, the more she'll want it soon, especially when you sleep with her.
6) Don't see her every single day. You have to leave a time gap so she misses you more the next time you come.

That's all to be honest. These were the major highlights. Just don't fall into the same trap I fell in.

Good luck!