So my girlfriend (shes 28, im 22) of a few months now told me she might be moving in with a guy 'friend'. I dont know much about this guy, but to me this just sounds like trouble. I dont for a second believe that this guy would just so happen to be a white knight. Also, I dont know if i trust her, even though she's incredibly honest about everything (she admitted that she had cheated before-- according to her it was a bad relationship in which he didnt want to change, so she broke it off the next day, and started seeing the guy she cheated with-- her last ex of 3 years). I like this girl, we get along great but i couldn't cope with always having to worry and having her in the back of my mind! So Ive got a bit of a conundrum on my hands here, i need advice. What do i do?

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Rooming with a guy = Sleeping in the same house = Seeing each other every single day.

I seriously don't know about this. Never happened to me before. But I can somehow tell there is danger that things sometimes might get TOO intense and sex might break out of nowhere without her own control.

Unless the dude is an idiot and gets friendzoned.
To me, if I roomed with a girl, there's a high possibility we'll have comfort then sex.

Not a good situation at all... how long as she been your girlfriend?

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we've been together since june/july, so not that long. I dont know much about the guy, other than, that he is, in fact a guy. When she said she might be moving in december with her friend mark, in my mind i thought 'mark? the one with the penis? fuck'. Im not comfortable with the idea at all. What can i do?

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I say find out about him - or befriend him if it's gonna happen anyway. Maybe he's gay? Or a dwarf? Or really fucking weird and there's nothing to worry about...

If it happens that the guy is Brad Pitt then you're going to have to figure out how you feel about it.

Agree with above poster, meet him and normally you can tell almost straight away what their relationship is. Similar things have happened to me and often he turns out to be no threat whatsoever.

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A girl I am seeing has also brought up a similar situation. Meet them guy and assess the situation. Then you can go on from there.

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