Ok bare with me


I went out and picked up a girl she took me home and we fclosed. she then inviting me to a theme park 2 days after which i went to.

that week we started hanging out she introduced me to her mum was texting me all the time I stayed over her place a few nights a week she was cuddling kissing me ect.

She started asking me questions and getting to know me and I asked where we stood because it was a cofusing situation for me as I dont really bother talking to the girls after a one night stand. and she said she just wants to get to know me and see how things go.


We then went away for a weekend to the other side of the country for another theme park and she was ill that weekend.

since then she hasn't really put any effort in like she has stopped texting me all together and takes hours to reply on facebook have seen her once in 2 weeks. I was talking to her friend and she said that she has been in violent abusive relationships in the past and that she has to get to trust me. how can you build that up tho if you dont see that person or make an effort



From what I wrote have I fucked up I mean it would be a shame because I actually like this girl.

Can a better man advise me on how to handle this?

It does not seem like you fucked up, based on what you wrote (to me at least)... However I can't really tell how long you've been seeing this girl - you don't mention that.

Maybe she does need some space. Maybe she has other shit going on in her life you don't know about (or she doesn't want you to know about). Family problems, personal crap...

Thanks for your response man yu are correct i did miss a few things out seeing her for roughly a month now and its been the last 2 weeks she was ill for one week and thats about it really finding it really hard not to take it personally but my self esteem is a bit low now duo to issues that have come up recently any advice for not blowing up her phone with texts

The key is to make it appear as if it doesn't bother you and you have an abundance of other options and ways to fill your day that do not include her.

Believe me -- I am aware how difficult this can be, particularly if you feel like she's giving you the cold shoulder or excluding you intentionally.

You don't have to shut her out. It's fine to text her or invite her out. If she says no then you can go from there...

Its a simple situation...

She'll begin to come around again when you let it go a little bit. Girls her type pull away when a guy begins getting to close. So pull away, and discuss the situation at hand only when she returns(off her own efforts). So just begin focusing on other areas of your life, don't reach out to her and "be busy" the next time she asked to hang out and you're in. Its a simple formula.

Joey

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