Can anyone give me the basics on flirting? What I shouldn't be saying and what I should be saying to actually be flirting. What are some subtle ways at flirting? Essential tips to keep in mind? I just need the basics, I don't want to overthink it, I want to progressively get better at flirting by just doing it, all I need is a starting point. Thanks.

'Flirting' is basically the whole art of seduction, so giving some basic pointers can be difficult. It's also tricky because it's very contextual; how you might flirt with a girl at a bar will be quite different to how you flirt with a work colleague for example.

That being said, a few basic pointers I would give for flirting are;

Kino a lot
Make good eye contact
Be confident
Smile

These may seem almost too simple but in my opinion they are of the upmost importance for game.

Good luck,
Dbo

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I mean I'm very well spoken and am pretty confident in myself. I'm still a little unclear on kino though. Anyhow do you think I can just wing it with girls, like I said I am well spoken, I have a good bit of friends, and I'm attractive not to sound gay or anything lol, the thing is I've just never put forth the effort to pursue a girl, I was always entranced with getting good grades and extracurriculars (I'm a freshmen in college). Also do you have any examples of like flirting? haha, the thing is if I'm going to put myself out there, I want to make it somewhat clear that I'm attracted to them, but in a subtle manner, I don't want to be friendzoned so I want the gist of this.

Check this out to learn how to escalate kino properly.

majik-s-guide-to-kino-escalation-vt163160.html

I'll PM you some stuff for banter and flirting.

That's a quite funny question, since flirting is hard wired in our brains - something we know how to do genetically. When you were a baby, 3 months old, you knew how to flirt with your parents. How come you have forgotten about this?

For myself flirting comes natural, but for my wing it doesn't! Every aspect of your game should be congruent with your personality so if you're having to ask the basics of flirting it may not be the ideal way for you to be able to game your target.
My techniques for flirting usually consist of kino escalation, holding the gaze and bantering with them.
Look up cat string theory, that's the basic gist of flirting for me! But once again IT HAS TO FIT YOUR PERSONALITY otherwise it can come across as artificial!
Hope this helps!
Júan