Tonite I'm going to a bar that I frequent to meet some friends. Im riding with what you would call my female wing.

I currently have 3 regular hookups, and one just informed me she is going to come out, and my wing said that one of the others is coming too.

I'm definitely going. When I run into this situation, I generally just try to hang out with my friends and give the girls just enough attention to drag them along. Then, I leave and text whichever one I'm feeling that night to come bump nasties.

There is no chance for a threesome.

Anybody have a better method of dealing with this? It wouldn't kill me if I lost a fwb, but I would only do it for a serious upgrade.

PS: I try to avoid any social interaction with fwb's in order to preserve the simplicity of the relationship, but sometimes these things happen.

Honestly a lot of guys here would be like who cares but I agree with this issue.

I personally would show up for a short time and change plans. Tell them you'll catch up with them later.

Also it depends on how busy that place is... can you gain separation easy?

This isn't directly related to your advice but I have a strong suspicion you'd enjoy a couple of articles I've written in the past:

Getting and keeping a fuck buddy -> http://snarkysnatch.wordpress.com/2012/ ... uck-buddy/

Fuck buddy tips -> http://snarkysnatch.wordpress.com/2012/ ... uck-buddy/

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Small local bar. There no chance of avoiding contact. Luckily,all 3 of us will be with 3 different groups.

Also, they know each other. Not best buds, but I give it a 50/50 that after tonite everything will be out in the open.

I've got them zoned in pretty well, but I have a feeling I'm going to end up losing both tonite. And they are both hot freaks that don't want a relationship. If I have to choose one over the other, that takes the relationship up a notch, which I am not going to do.

I know for a fact I'm going to at least get slapped.

I'll let you know how it goes.

Na, Be direct say well I assume you are getting action elsewhere as well and I'm not offended. I'm open to my own variety.

They don't want relationships then they can't be assholes about you seeing other women, be very direct about it.

You won't get slapped as long as you say it the way it is. I also would still leave after putting it how it was. I wouldn't worry about it as long as you don't flaunt shit most girls don't care if they are just about the sex.

If this isn't a relationship they have no right to get pissy about it. I'm a bit more charismatic about it but that's the way I see it.

Just don't be a bitch about it, you have to be confident and say it the way it is. She's getting action your getting action and that's all it is.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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I'm not new to the situation at all, I just have a record of not being able to salvage anything when this shit goes down.

Heading out in an hour. I'll update in the a.m.

Perhaps you are first encountered this kind of thing, the first time such an emergency to deal with things, but you have a very good deal, the girls will be grateful to you.

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Well one was with a guy, so a few winks here and there and no issues. The other was basically on a mission to get me in a LTR, and I ended up ignoring her and hollering at another skeezer.

I didn't get slapped, but we probably won't be hanging out soon haha. And she said she had know about other girl for a while but was too chickenshit to bring it up.

Anywho I did reconnect with an old flame that I never could get to go all the way last year. She is going to bring some folks over to my.place on Saturday so win. She's hotter than the other two so win again.

You're just needy and seek validation. She doesn't want you. She's just using you like a tool to stroke her ego. You're get played bad.

If getting bj's from a tilted kilt waitress -who brings her work friends over to my parties-is getting played....fine by me. I'll let her play me all she wants. If stroking my dick strokes her ego, I guess I'll just deal with it.

The reason I never got to home plate with her is because she was trying to hold out the snatch hoping I would date her. Whatev....you have that sometimes. I dont let it bother me because there are plenty of other skanks running around.