Hey guys,
Basically there's a girl in one of my classes, I was sat next to her on the way back from college and didn't know her. I saw her put on the same bands I was listening to twice in a row (my iPod was visible to her) so I struck up a conversation and now we go to college together. Anyway, I do like her - this isn't some oneitis crap I've had that (how horrible?!) and we just generally talk about our many similar hobbies / subjects. I know to progress I've got flirt / kino and stuff, but how do I go about implementing this subtly? I'm trying to talk to as many girls as I can just to improve my confidence but I am by no means leading them on.

Any advice by you guys is much appreciated?

Shall I simply ask her out somewhere we've talked about? (Cliche?)
Part of me now just says 'nothing matters as much as you think it does' get on with it - stop thinking so much. Do you agree with that view?

I'm generally a bit nervous, but I've been told it doesn't come across. Thanks in advance - sorry if this is in the wrong category.

The main problem is that you are over-thinking. Just remove all that crap from your head and you'll do great. What's the worst that could happen? She says another time?

If you're not going to tell her already, you won't ever have her and someone with enough balls might just ask her out and claim her.

Don't think about it, just tell her to go out with you. Don't go to a specific place, choose places as you go and talk, get to know each other, escalate and you'll have her in no time.

If you feel nervous you are nervous. Fuck what others say because they're being nice. You need inner game, obviously. Work on that and expose yourself to different situations.

Really, get to the point where you just don't give a fuck and would literally walk away. That's what you need right now: Take it or leave it attitude.

If it's just the bus journey just ask her out. It doesn't have to be a freakin' date man. Just say "We should hang out some time. Put your number in my phone." Boom, she won't refuse. Worst case scenario you make a friend who has hot women, you talk around, be known as the guy who knows hot women and boom you're the number one guy on campus. Other scenario: You go out just you two, things go well and you fuck her, you fuck her good.

I'm having a party soon and invited her but she said she might be babysitting. I text her saying she could bring a few friends but she hasn't replied. Have I fucked up? Shall I just leave it and play it cool. Have taken your advice guys and am making an effort with other friends that are girls.