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PostPosted: Tue Oct 08, 2013 3:26 pm 
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Hi guys

I have a particularly hot gf and whenever she goes out clubbing or to bars she always gets lots of attention whether or not I'm there. There's even been times when guys have been obviously inappropriate with her in front of me like slapping her ass as we walk to the bar or shit like that.
Now I'm not a pussy and sometimes when I see this or she tells me about this I go straight up to the guy and grab him and scare the shit out of him, but sometimes the guy is a big guy in a group who would kick my ass if I went up to him. So what should I do in that situation to take control but not get into a fight I surely cannot win?


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 08, 2013 4:01 pm 
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Hi guys

I have a particularly hot gf and whenever she goes out clubbing or to bars she always gets lots of attention whether or not I'm there. There's even been times when guys have been obviously inappropriate with her in front of me like slapping her ass as we walk to the bar or shit like that.
Now I'm not a pussy and sometimes when I see this or she tells me about this I go straight up to the guy and grab him and scare the shit out of him, but sometimes the guy is a big guy in a group who would kick my ass if I went up to him. So what should I do in that situation to take control but not get into a fight I surely cannot win?

If you girlfriend is hot and she gets attention, then there is nothing you need to do, be no reactive, no biggie. There is no way players know she is taken or not.

If you girlfriend is hot and guys try to talk to her AND THEY KNOW SHE IS WITH YOU, that is disrespect, in that case you confront them or call the bouncer(which is what i recommend big dude or not) and have the dude thrown out.

I question if you gf is fucking with you(shit test), since she is obviously sending vives and approach invites to be mess with, maybe to get a reaction from you. Women do that a lot.

If she is not giving those vibes and body language, but given the body language of fuck off to strangers is very rare for a girl to be mess with, has to be a drunk guy, but unusual.

Bottom line, do not fight in clubs, get a bouncer, and do not show yourself as jealous/overprotective, but as there for her to protect her(good).

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 6:31 am 
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I don't think she's giving off those vibes as a shit test since she really doesn't like guys doing that (grabbing inappropriately, etc), she's even cried once because one time when I wasn't there with her at this club, a random dude grabbed her ass and while his friend video taped it.
I'll take your advice of not getting into fights and calling the bouncer but I don't think that is always possible - say it's a crowded/large club with few bouncers, I don't think it'd be possible to get the bouncer to kick him out then.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 7:18 am 
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I don't think she's giving off those vibes as a shit test since she really doesn't like guys doing that (grabbing inappropriately, etc), she's even cried once because one time when I wasn't there with her at this club, a random dude grabbed her ass and while his friend video taped it.
I'll take your advice of not getting into fights and calling the bouncer but I don't think that is always possible - say it's a crowded/large club with few bouncers, I don't think it'd be possible to get the bouncer to kick him out then.

^ got you! Then i don't know what type of clubs you are going to... Second, the ones i go to, bouncers see and know what is going on at all times.... I think you are going to guetthoo type clubs. Change venues, go to classier venues. Remember to befriend bouncers man, you need to know the bouncers.... Cause even if you can kick the guys ass is a loss, you can get jump, even by the bouncers and arrested.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 7:56 am 
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I go to a wide variety of clubs and do try to befriend the bouncers whenever possible. Just the ass grabbing/inappropriate touching and talking things seem to happen regularly when I go out with her, irrelevant of the venues we go to.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 9:45 am 
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I've seriously been with some decent girls to clubs, and I never faced this type of situation.
Sometimes I even go out alone with 4-5 girls (my friends) and not even a single guy touches inappropriately. I keep an eye on all girls so people see that they have a guy with them.

Hell...sometimes even guys try to open me in order to talk to the girls.
Your case is weird man, try changing places because it seems you're not doing it right.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 2:46 pm 
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Quit hanging out in sketch bars man. This doesn't happen in respectable crowds.


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