Brief description. Met this older girl (HB 9) on twitter and started to chat her up. She's 5 years older than me (which doesn't bother me nor worries me) and actually ended up coming out one night to the bar. It was in a group setting where she knew no one except me (who she was meeting for the first time) so I had to play the right amount of giving her 1 on 1 conversation, and group talk which I thought I did well.

Anyways, so I ask her this past Saturday if she'd like to come to the bar next week. She said she can't guarantee but will see if she can (has a kid btw). I decide to give her some time until today to figure out if she can. Here's the convo.

Me: Let me know if you're game for Thursday
Her: I can't, sorry
Me: All good. Let me know if you wanna get together sometime
Her: Wanna make things clear so no lines get crossed that if we hangout it's as friends. I'm seeing someone so I don't want their to be any misunderstanding on your side
Me: What are you talking about, we're not seeing each other =P
Me: Haha that's good to know, I'm easy don't worry
Her: Just want to make sure I stated that
Me: I get it, don't worry
Me: So again, holler if you wanna hang sometime

#1, I don't know if she actually is seeing someone. Might/might not be. Either way did I play this out well? I wanted to make sure it's on her to ask me to hangout, so I know she's interested.

Dude - she's totally not available or into it.

This.

More details about what happened when you met up. I'm impressed you met up with a girl you "met" on Twitter, so I'm curious what you had to say to make that happen. I think the details will answer the question.

Also, NEXT. That girl isn't interested, and one of the things that many "PUAs" entirely miss is that, if a girl's not into you, nothing you can say is going to change her mind. You cannot "save it," it's gone.

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Sometime girls are not sexually available for many reasons, not ur fault hers. But it seems to me that you're a very nice guy and she was replying out of niceness. You need to become less seeking permission and more just commanding the girl. I am telling you this harsh reality because this is what's going to drive you. When you will be so frustrated with your results and have a "this is it iam going to change this " moment that's when you'll improve. Anywho good luck dude.

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Okay, I'll take your fellas words for it.

How I met her on twitter was because we both retweeted out the same thing, saw the list and checked out her profile cause she was hot. Turns out we're connected as she teaches at the school that I coach at (it was in her Twitter profile)

I followed her, she followed back... Then I DM'd her, spoke to her and got her to text me. She's come out to a couple games I've coached at (which is why I feel she's interested, but she did say she wants to get involved by coming out more often anyways, so this one I'm not sure about) and after the first game was the first time I met her in person. I invited her to the bar, and she ended up coming out (which I described in the first post)

Anyways, I'll let this one go on her own. If she wants to hang out, she'll have to ask.