Transference: How To Make Someone Fall in Love With You



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 2:29 am 
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Psychologist such as Freud and Jung noticed that their patients often fell in love with them. By asking the patients questions about their feelings while at the sametime the patients knew very little about the Therapist, the patients began to project fantasies and feelings on to the therapist. The notion was that they were transferring feelings of affection from someone else such as a parent, sibling or close childhood friend onto them. A recent movie called Trance with Rosario Dawson gives a dramatic portrayal of this.

Let's re-examine a few things in the pick tool bag.

1.) The Opinion Opener. Guys might say the purpose of this is just to get social acceptance or just to break the ice. However, by putting your self in need of an opinion, in need of help, this portrays you as harmless to the female. She feels a sense of power and that allows her to relax. No guards are up.

2.) With the girl now relaxed she becomes comfortable talking about how she feels: Dreams, Fears, Memories, Past.

3.) By remaining mysterious, not talking to much and not revealing things about yourself, you allow her to project feelings onto you even if they are unrealistic.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 08, 2013 10:52 pm 
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If you like this kind of stuff, look into elicitation.

Not something for me, but you might like it.

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Oh look, another retarded post from Return of the Dream. Never seen that coming....

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Overthinking mental masturbation at its best. The opinion opener doesn't project you as weak. It's weak body language that projects you as weak. Psychotherapists are masters of their body language to project comforting and engaging agenda towards their patients. They usually fall in love with them because they're sometimes closer to them than anyone else, plus they have higher status, plus they feel good and safe around the therapists, meanwhile, the emotional rollercoaster effect can also be there, so basically anything for both attraction and connection to arise.

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Overthinking mental masturbation at its best. The opinion opener doesn't project you as weak. It's weak body language that projects you as weak. Psychotherapists are masters of their body language to project comforting and engaging agenda towards their patients. They usually fall in love with them because they're sometimes closer to them than anyone else, plus they have higher status, plus they feel good and safe around the therapists, meanwhile, the emotional rollercoaster effect can also be there, so basically anything for both attraction and connection to arise.
It's works and it's very clever. Asking for advice lowers people's guard by putting you in a position of needing existence . It helps people relax...it's not about being weak.


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Please follow the forum rules.

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