You don't "demonstrate" attraction. You will *get* attraction (the girl will be attracted) if you are an attractive guy:
http://www.traitsofthealphamale.com/77/ ... lpha-male/
And as ZealousR wrote, "kino for escalation", does actually NOT generate attraction. Attraction is something you need to have from the very first second. Kino comes later, and have the following effects:
1. Makes the girl comfortable with you touching her, so taking it a bit further is never a big deal.
2. Friendly, non-sexual, touches is very effective to make someone like you.
3. It is a so called "indication of interest", so if done correctly, it will make her wonder whether you are interested in her or not. And she will feel the urge to find out...
