You are friendzoned so bad it actually makes me cringe.

I know tons of girls that make dirty jokes all the time because they are a bit tomboyish. She fits that bill, and probably tends to have guys as friends all the time.

By the way, dicking around with an intern is sketch.

Hmm, now you are her gay best friend? Cut her off.. You are falling for her frame here buddy Well, most likely you already did

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Well if what the guys says are true that your are in the friendzone. Take advantage of it. haha ask her if she wants a massage. that's the only way I know how to get touchy touchy if in the friend zone. But u gotta atleast know how to give a massage. Start with the shoulders and if it's good she'll ask u to do it again some other time. then maybe you'll get to do her whole body. xD Don't take my advice seriously I'm still new at this.

Dude how long have you been with ur girl? Are you serious with her? This other chick sounds cool as shit but you could easily be in her friend zone. I say pay more attention to your girl and see if she tries to pull you... Going to the mall with her could be a good sign depending on the communication but it can also mean you're like her gay friend and she's just playing with you.

Seems like she plays a lot of games and personally (if your girl is worth keeping) I wouldn't risk a relationship on this..... If you are unhappy with your girl you shouldn't be with her. Don't be surprised if this other chick disappears when you're not taken anymore though. But hey it's a forum I could be wrong. I'm not there to see the situation

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re-reading your post about being her "image consultant" it really sounds like she's using you as her lil puppy. I wouldn't stand for it and you shouldn't disrespect yourself or your relationship like that.

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In the early stages, there was an opportunity. Reluctance/guilt/moral compass over your current relationship prevented you from doing anything. Now it has become a dangerous game of ego boost on both parts. Like a game of hot potato with a poorly made pipe bomb that it is, she keeps tossing to you, and you are more than happy to catch it. It will more likely blow up in your face, NOT hers.

Your girl will get pissed and dump you for always being up her ass, and the intern will leave you standing there with your dick in your hand for all time.

If you want to move forward, then go beyond your ego and the bullshit false dialogue. Make a decision to regain the control, and the need to be approved of.

She's an intern. Treat her like one. Drop it back in her lap, tell her to quit the teenage middle school bullshit and focus on her job.

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All right, news update.

I did not explain myself clearly. When we went to the mall I also used her as my own image consultant on two suits I ordered, so it was a kind of a two way street. And for the treat her like an intern part, that is not an issue. I have worked too hard to get here and will not have my position undermined for lack of discipline on my team. I always show alpha behaviour in the office. With this girl specifically I have her help me dress my jacket anytime we go out, oredered her to pick up a suit at the tailor, take my car to the car wash and on our daily brief I have a rule of "everybody remains standing until the boss sits down", so my team kinda stands at attention when I walk into the meeting room and remains that way until told otherwise. Also, she may see me as her friend, but not her gay friend. In fact she called me a "player" more than once.

As for my relationship, at this point that is not an issue. My girl trusts me and I keep her up to date on how things go. Besides, the moment she expresses disconfort, I will stop. At this moment I just have some... "academic curiosity" to see how it evolves with my intern.

Anyway, last evening she started a 20 messages text chain with me, starting with a few making fun of our Branch Director and ended up with some "boss/secretary" role play. Altough, technically, she is in fact my secretary, so no role play.

Guess I'll try the massage thing. I have dated a masseuss a few years back and have been told by several girls I give some fucking great massages. Will update again if the situation justifies it.

Cheers.

Shit... Now you're just confusing me.

Anyway, here's the update: today we had lunch at the local mall and she had the idea of using me as "image consultant". Basically, she took me to half a dozen clothing stores to give her my opinion on some stuff. Later said she is thinking about changing her hairstyle and showed me a bunch of pictures asking what I taught would make her look better.




RUN SHES A PUA!!

Ego stroking.
Mental masturbation.

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Personal opinion.... If you're in a relationship you should continue gaming, it's healthy..... But if it's fucking with your head maybe something in the relationship ain't working.

You're waaayyyyy to invested imho

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