Hey, guys. Just taught I'd share a story and see if you can figure this girl out.

So, here's the rundown of the situation: The security firm I work for was hired to upgrade the security system on my local police station. Replace standard door locks with keycard high security locks, upgrade the servers and CCTV gear, institute new practices on how to transmit and handle sensitive data and train some key personel on the proper use of this equipment. Anyway, since I worked (briefly) on that same police station when I was in college my CO tasked my with running that operation.

On my team I have two interns to do the "grunt work", one is pretty average and uninteresting, so let's forget about her. The other is an HB9 (could be a 10 if she had bigger boobs) with a great personality. The kind of girl that although being extremely hot is easy to talk to. And we share a few common interests, too. I just met this girl 3 days ago and we instantly clicked, facebook chatted, the whole shazam. Now, I have a gf and I'm happy with her so I played no game on this girl (well, maybe a little game but no escalation). The thing is, I get a sense that she is constantly shit-testing me.

Right from the first day I met her, she said she is "crazy about cops", has dated a few and complained there are no hot cops on that station. She braught up this conversation a few times and it always ends up with "anyway, I'm through with cops. They are all assholes".

One time we were having lunch togather and she asked if I had noticed the "officer with green eyes at the reception desk". I said "Yeah, I noticed. Don't know who he is though, must have started after I left the service". She said "Yeah, he's kinda cute". This felt like a shit-test and I have a gf, so I just said "Well, you're a cute girl. Just go talk to him". She said "Nah, he's married. I noticed the ring on his finger. And I'm through with cops anyway".

Today we lunched togather (and alone) again, but this time it was in the station's cafeteria. Now, this one is rich. Just after a few minutes chatting, she said "You know what? Jane Smith (the other intern, not her real name, obviously) asked me if I have a boyfriend, just out of the blue. And I was like, no... and then she didn't say anything else. What's the deal with her?" This felt like another shit-test, I said "well, maybe she has a brother on the market". She replied "Or maybe she's lesbian". I said "Well, if you two want a threesome, I'm down". She laughed and said "Yeah, I bet you are". Then we just laughed it off and dropped the matter. A few minutes after that, and this one is quite remarkable, a cop passed through the hall and she just jumped off the table, ran to the door and peeked in the hallway. Then she sat back and said "nah, he's not as hot as he seemed. The officers here are all too old for me". She's 22, I'm 26, the guy was on his early to mid thirties, is she trying to tell me something? And finished off with the now standard "I've dated cops before and I'm through with them".

Also, keeping with the law enforcement theme, after lunch we stopped a minute to look at a few guns and other artifacts on display cases at the lobby and she kept making sexual innuendo jokes with "handcuffs", "big guns" and "extendable batons, the ones that look small and grow large when you use them".

WTF guys? Is this girl crazy? Is she really that easy-going? Or is she really into me even without any effort on my part. I've never met someone like this before.

Bro, she want you to take the initiative, and take her to bed (broom closet/bathroom stall whatever.). She doesn't care about your girl, the cops, the weather, the alignment of the stars. She just knows she wants your wiener.

If you don't think so? Try this. Tell her the dumbest lame ass joke ever. If she laughs at it, all your going to need to do is tip her over and GO!

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I think she is trying to friendzone you to be honest...

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I don't see her showing any interest in you, to be honest.

Also, I call BULLSHIT on your "HB9 who works for a security firm installing shit."

Not happening.

But if we're to imagine this is a true story, I'd say...who cares?

If you want to see if she likes you, escalate.

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she is either a massive prick tease or she wants to bang imo
pics or it didnt happen!

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That's what I'm saying. It's pretty simple.

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If I was you, I would make her chase me instead of trying to pull her. Whenever she pulls a shit test towards you, just agree and amplify. She brings up sexual references through handcuffs, big guns, etc, tell her: " You better stop flirting with me.. I'm already taken" while smiling at her. Usually with girls who always shit test guys, you have make sure you don't fall under their frame and be nonreactive to what they have to say when teasing you. They are looking for the insecure guy inside you. Once they find it, you are doomed

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That's precisely the point. It's not going to happen. Well, at least not any time soon, I hope. I may be many things but a backstabbing bastard is not one of them. She is probably friendzoning me, since I kinda friendzoned her first. Still worth keeping around in the case things go south with my gf and because she is, to be honest, pretty damn cool. Just wish I had met the two of them on the opposite order.

Anyway, just started this thread to know what you guys think, cause I had never met a girl like this and didn't know what her angle was (and I still don't know). I invited her to go out for drinks tonight with my crew, just to see how she interacts with my gf and the rest of the gang.

Cheers and thanks for the input.

her behavior around your girlf will tell a lot

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Dude,

You suffer from "I-don't-know-what-the-fuck-I-want-itis" (also sometimes called a conscience).... Don't beat around the bush if you're not going to shoot the bird.

As I tell some of my friend down here, it doesn't usually matter what SHE wants, rather what YOU want. Our objective is to change their minds... You don't know your own. Therein, the problem.

I don't recommend, nor condemn, infidelity. However, I will ask you this to force you into perspective:

What if you accidentally read a message on her phone or somewhere that SAID FLAT OUT that she had the hots 4 you and wished you'd bang her brains out in the broom closet. What would you do then?? (and please don't say she left it for you to see on purpose or shit, this is a thought experiment).

Cheers!

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90% sure I'm friendzoned. She instantly made friends with my gf ans said we make "a very cute couple", so she either wants to be just friends, or she is a first class manipulator. And I'm leaning more into being friendzoned. On the downside, my chances of getting a threesome just dwindled exponentially.

And to answer your question, I would leave it alone and walk away.

Cheers and thanks for the help.

As long as you know what you want, cool.

Best of luck.

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Isn't saying "you 2 make a very cute couple" a pua technique way of asking if u have a couple or not? This technique works for me haha im surprised she used it.

Shit... Now you're just confusing me.

Anyway, here's the update: today we had lunch at the local mall and she had the idea of using me as "image consultant". Basically, she took me to half a dozen clothing stores to give her my opinion on some stuff. Later said she is thinking about changing her hairstyle and showed me a bunch of pictures asking what I taught would make her look better.