So lets look at the people who have ever dated girls but have failed to build up that great rappor and connection with them as many people here know how to do. They somehow got the girl anyway.

Do you still think by them just having a great inner game i.e. being very sure of yourself, will still win the woman over ?.

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Attraction is much more important to initial success then rapport, focus on that. AFC's love to focus on comfort and rapport which is anti-productive.

Comfort and rapport is extremely important, but is worthless without attraction. If you don't have attraction, you will end up in the friend zone. You need all of them. Attraction is quite easy to get, as long as you look good enough, demonstrate higher value and are confident. Building rapport requires the ability to read another person's state of mind, which some people find very difficult (especially if you have Asperger's syndrome). You need a good dose of EQ.
It depends on what you mean by "inner game". Just being sure of yourself will not guarantee anything. You can be as confident as you like, but if you skip the "comfort" stage, you will not get anywhere. Btw, I think "comfort" is the wrong word. "Relationship building" is better. You need to make her trust you, even if your intentions are to tie her up, spank her, and then forget about her the next day.