The PUA Mindset



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 Post subject: The PUA Mindset
PostPosted: Wed Oct 02, 2013 1:18 pm 
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So I've been around different pua's with different mindsets and it just boggles my mind over what most of them have in common.

As far as female friends go.. they tend to break away all relationship with them unless it involves some tail. Mainly being because having females friends make them soft and they want to keep their game as solid as possible.

Keeping it short and simple but thoughts and opinions?


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 Post subject: Re: The PUA Mindset
PostPosted: Wed Oct 02, 2013 2:50 pm 
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On the contrary, having female friends will help, and having hot female friends will help you more than anything.

The hard part is making them when you're being a PUA.

But then again I'm talking from a social circle game standpoint, rather than the usual PUA sarge night out on the prowl.

When I started out, I didn't have any female-friend, mostly because I wanted to get into everyone of their pants...and the PUA mentality were slightly weird to girls that prevent from forming any female friendship.

It was after I took a break from PUA, and allow myself to let natural social interaction happened with what I've learned from PUA, the stuffs sort of became subconscious implanted in my mind.

I believe the PUA mindset helps in getting things started to guide you in your interaction and get experience, but eventually you do want it to be natural.

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 Post subject: Re: The PUA Mindset
PostPosted: Wed Oct 02, 2013 3:02 pm 
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It's tough being friends because they tend to start finding you attractive. When that happens it gets awkward... Sometimes jealous enters the equation too. It's just how it ends up happening.

I wouldn't call myself a PUA but i've come a hell of a long way and i've turned my life around in general but I keep the PUA mannerisms, postures(Being alpha), mentality and stuff. I don't suffer from Oneitise anymore and i'm never pining over any one woman but when I become friends with a girl she'll start being flirty with me, not in a funny "we're such good friends way" but in a proper grabbing at you for attention kind of way, throwing IOIs at me, etc. I have women pinging me from time to time and trying to cover it up with wrong numbers every now and then. I'm reluctant to pursue it because of the social ramifications that would be involved. The only outcome is that I score them or they just wander off because i'm not reciprocating the IOIs.


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 Post subject: Re: The PUA Mindset
PostPosted: Fri Oct 04, 2013 6:03 am 
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Nothing wrong with having female friends at all. If anything, having female friends will HELP you. I've had girls who I was "just friends" with throw their friends at me... They talk me up and make me even that much more desirable.

Plus, it's ALWAYS a good thing to have women around....

1. You get to really understand them and how they act. I'm gonna tell you to drop the whole "PUA" thing and work on being more successful with women.... learn how to understand them and get the reactions you want. You won't learn that through a bunch of your buddies who are all about "sarging."

2. You bring them out and now people see you as "the dude who's got 4 girls with him." You look like the fucking man. It builds social proof and represents preselection. If you want a situation where you have women fighting over you.... You have to create that situation.

3. I honestly think I've fucked every single one of my female friends. They start hanging out with you and realize how much of a bad ass mother fucker you are and just a cool guy to be around... You will become the booty call. I get a phone call from a female friend probably once or twice a month telling me that she's sexually frustrated and she winds up coming over. Hot girls don't come across bad ass guys as much as you think. Most guys are fucking pussies. Be the best one who they know will fuck their brains out.... And you can be "friends with benefits." Nothing wrong with that :)


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