Okay, so ages ago I made an online profile but never really paid attention to it but I still get notifications through email when I get messages. But thanks to gmails new tabbing system they never really bother me. So yesterday, out of boredom and curiosity I decided to check on a message I received yesterday and it was from a woman who lived in my city. She was bangable. an 8 maybe 8.5. Her first message was like

Her: Hello, How r u? Love your pic, are you on whats app or bbm?

I didn't reply because I really didn't see anything coming out of it. but apparently she got restless and sent me another one 20 minutes later. (It shows when I'm online.)

Subject: ???
Her: you're very sexy, so if you're on whats app, let me know, okay. x

So I said fuck it and sent her my number. We chatted a bit and found out she lived 5 minutes walk away. Okay, so through text I controlled the convo best I could, made it a bit sexual and told her when we would meet, next week. Didn't ask, just told her and she agreed and from the vibe I was getting from her, she wanted the D. I could even say she gamed me most of the time. I try to avoid texting a lot before I actually date a girl so I can actually find out more about her, face to face.

Besides, the "date" is just a formality, I'm 95% sure I will fuck her. It's one of those "just to see how things go" situations.(we're both clear that we just want some fun, no commitment) The 5% is my fear of fucking it up during the "date". So it's like all I have to do is not fuck it up. So now here is where I need advice.

1. Never dated or banged someone more than 3 years older than me. I just have this idea that we think on different wavelengths for some reason and we wouldn't vibe. Am I overthinking things? If not, what's the best way to handle that situation? Should I just treat her like I would a girl my age?

2. She doesn't drink so that severely limited my "first date" venues. Any ideas?

3. Also any advice on not fucking it up. Like what NOT to do.

I hate to disappoint you, but this sounds like one of those spammers/scammers. the person on the other end is probably trying to scam you. so be careful.

a real girl would not just message you and say "I love your pic, let's fuck"

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

haha exactly what I thought but then recently I got into the habit of always taking opportunities that present themselves, coz you never know. plus if I don't die, I have a funny story to tell. Guess if I do go, It will be with a mate watching my back, in broad daylight, with lots of people, wearing a bulletproof vest, no wallet, maybe wearing some other protective gear so he/she doesn't steal my kidneys, and a switchblade in my pocket. lol

If your muscular and very attractive its probably legit and she just wants to hump, if your average looking than ya it may be a scam.

If she doesn't drinks just have her over for "movie night", keep the convo to a minimum so you dont fuck it up before you fuck her.

Definitely just treat her in the same way you would do any other girl. I'm 22 and a girl I got with a couple of weeks ago turned out to be 33 - I didn't realise until I was driving her home the next morning and she mentioned her age in passing.

One of the good things with girls getting around the 30 mark is that they will often have more idea of what they want than your usual teenager/young twenties girl, and they go and get it. Usually (obviously not always, this is a massive generalisation but one which I have found to be quite true a lot of the time) there will be far less shit and hassle with girls that slight bit older. Often they aren't shy about getting what they want, if they want to fuck you, they will be very forward and get you to fuck them. Although maybe they won't be as receptive to some of the more cheesy routines and that type of stuff, purely because they have been there done that got many t-shirts! But if you're quite natural with most girls anyway, just do what you'd normally do. Chicks are chicks at the end of the day.

Great advice guys, really appreciate it.