I dated a hb9 last year, amazing body, super smart, great energy and all. Last week we started talking again for the first time in a long time.

She message me first and we had a few small hey how are you type of chat messages. Then I said to her I was glad we kind of stayed interested in each others lives. And she asked me why... I told her "Well I mean, we did see each other and I did like you, plus we were friends before we had a relationship for a while. I guess it's nice to keep up with old friends."

Then I receive this..."Except that we haven't talked in a year and you were a total dick to me before I left so I'm not sure how that makes us old friends."

And I was a little because she was ignoring me the last time I saw her. I want to stay in touch with her because she comes back into town now. but not sure how to recover.

I was thinking of respond with... oh okay sorry you feel that way, I never wanted to disrespect you or whatever.

Any thoughts on a solid reply??

Disregard, change subject, meet her in person. Obviously there is interest or she wouldn't have contacted you, trust/comfort is low so she threw a shit test right out of the gate.

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Definitely see how trust between us is lost. But what’s exactly the best way to work with a shit test?

I was thinking of responding with… “I’m glad to see you haven’t lost your personality haha sorry if you feel that way, I never tried to disrespect you. But I can’t say that about the chair we broke in your apt…now that was bad haha”

We broke a chair having sex after a long night of bar hopping lol

Solid reply???

Listen to this man.

Change the subject. Don't even acknowledge she said it.