So the other day I went to the mall just to practice. There was this HB10 who caught my eye at a Forever 21. I approached with an indirect opener and tried to start a conversation. She seem really annoyed and said "look I know what you are trying to do I am not stupid I know about the PUA community". I of course played it off and pretended I had no knowledge of the seduction community. She fell for it and apologized to me for bursting out like that and when about her day. How do you deal with women who are aware of the seduction community and know all of our tricks and routines

Well, what can we say? either you can be honest and reply that "I am sorry I was kinda lame, but I really wanted to get to know you, since you look good today! You deserve complements!" and just say that you usually are giving complements to people around you, it makes yours, and them/they happy for the day!

Or you could just stick to what you said about you didn't know, and made an excuse. Personally, and most importantly, everything comes from your confident how you wish to express yourself. It's not the words that counts, but the meaning behind the words (your confidents).

Stop using routines bro...

Think up your own openers designed around your personality. Canned stuff is just a guideline to get you started.

Why would you apologize?

It can be a great springboard into a discussion about male/female dynamics, dating advice, what works, what doesn't, etc.

Her feedback: I am aware of what you are doing.

Leverage it in a way that works for you, you could have formed a connection over it.

I am 100% positive some of the girls I've banged know without a doubt that I've studied Game (since a very high number of guys who are successful have studied it in one way or another these days). I've even spoken to some of them about it, and demonstrated TO THEM some of things I did to attract them in the first place.

I remember explaining to one girl what a cold-read was. Even after explaining it to her, and after detailing the one I used on her, she STILL believed the cold-read was "magical." She said, "No, you only said that because you know so much about me."

Despite the fact that I'd just explained to her what a Barnum Statement is!

They eat it up because they love it.

Don't forget that!

You could have damage-controlled this situation dude.

Imagine how a girl would react if she came up to talk to you and you "called her out" on putting on makeup and wearing a nice dress...."I KNOW what you're doing! I've heard of Cosmo! I'm not stupid!"

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Imagine how a girl would react if she came up to talk to you and you "called her out" on putting on makeup and wearing a nice dress...."I KNOW what you're doing! I've heard of Cosmo! I'm not stupid!"

that was funny.

I don't do routines or non of that geeky nonsense but if I did and a girl called me out I would own it and have a conversation with her about pua. How she found out about it and how often this happens to her. I wouldn't lie and play the beta role.

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How about you just stop being a pua and continue to work on yourself until you reach the point where you are socially capable without being dependent on anything gimmicky. You'll become attractive enough where your value speaks for itself. Of course I'm not saying this is an easy thing to do. It often takes years.

As far as that particularly girl.. I think if a girl calls you out I would just be honest, "Yeah it's kinda dumb but I sometimes need a little help to get over my shyness. But I was curious about you though." blah blah. You probably won't sweep her off her feet but at least you're being true to yourself.

One of the best things you can learn is just to own who you are. You might not ADVERTISE something (like that you read PUA material), but you can own it/admit it. Don't think of it as a bad thing necessarily.

When I started out over a year ago I tried some routines but, being me, I hinted that I was doing this shit with my sets. One of the girls in a set read MM, copped onto what I had said and basically called me out on it. I just laughed it off.

I just focused on mannerisms, posture and conversational skills plus how to get attention in social situations shortly after that. Worked for me, netted a HB9 who was obsessed with me, got with her and stopped PU. Got back into and dropped the routines but I still like to do some tricks here and there. If a chick says "I know that from somewhere" you just say "Good for you, google is my friend too!" and just laugh it off. They don't say they know you got it from Pick Up and you're free to say you got it from a friend or someone pointed it out to you, that it's a lot of fun to do and shit. Simple.

Just stop with the canned stuff and they can't call you out.

Funny really, women are obsessing over canned material yet the game is so far ahead of what they're reading up on.