this question has been bothering me for a long time and if you can please answer it - i will be forever grateful...

what do i do if the girl that i approached is giving me strong dismissive body language and one word responses (where it's quiet obvious that she doesn't want to keep talking to me)?

sample scenario:
I run my opener and she looks the other way and doesn't want to look at me in the face while I am talking to her. If i ask a question she answers in a condensing tone and gives one word answers.

Now obviously this proof that i didn't approach correctly... and yes there's always the generic advice of "next her"... but let's say i want to stay to damage control and just keep plowing. i have been forever wondering what to do to turn it around.

If she is a really big asshole, just leave! No Point to stick around extremely negative person.

agreed.

but i tried to make it explicitly clear in the question that i am looking for a
way to recover.

leaving is easy. i can always next a girl. anyone can leave but it takes real true skill be able to plow through dat shit and turn it around.

question again....
HOW DO I RECOVER?

Pretend you're totally unaware and barrel through regardless. If the situation is irretrievable then ask her what she does for a living. No matter what she says reply "OK....er....well have a good night anyway" while backing off.

You just dumped her for her profession. Status retrieved.

Move on. No one gets 100% of the girls they approach.

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Hey man,

You're not going to get the tread through the needle on the first poke. Sometimes you stick with her and poke around a bit before she opens up. It natural chick defenses; and its a test to see if you're strong enough to get through her guard. If you can't even get her to feel comfortable talking to you,how can you have anything more wit her? Thats how they see it.

A huge tip to follow is to asking open ended questions as apposed to close ended questions. All close ended questions end in a yes, no,or a one word answer. Where are you going? To starbucks, where do you work? at starbucks? How are you? good etc.etc. Those are all simple questions. And if you are asking those it shows that your approach isn't genuine. You don't actually fine the girl interesting, you are just approaching for the sport, or to add another notch to your belt.

Open ended: I know it gets busy in there - Whats in like working in starbucks? This calls for a longer responses and shows you actually care about the person you are talking to.

You aren't in these actions to receieve, you are in them to give. If you go in trying to get a number or trying to get laid, they're walls will stay up forever,

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This is sheer brilliance. wow.

I liked your tip about how plowing shows confidence. It's true.

I wouldn't ask open ended questions from the girl until you've gotten a few IOIs first because
she can just shoot them down and that would start a negative compliance momentum.

Lol. Ok dude.

I thought that "pua science" talk died a few years ago.

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i still consider myself an AFC to pickup...
why did pua science talk die? I'm confused

The only part of PUA science you need to know is that women are attracted to high value men. However, value can be a ton of different things depending on the guy.

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In my humble opinion- all that counting IOI's, IOD's, etc were designed by overly logical nerds who made a science out of this whole thing. This shit is a whole lot easier than they make it seem when you understand the way women think.

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kk thanks