Hey guys my club game really sucks ass and I am trying to improve it so badly but withouth luck. I need some boosts. I just checked out the pick up series from dancefloor seduction. Sometimes I see 2 guys who look so dam good and I think their just awesome naturals. Then I see them gaming and they just suck.. Then I see some lesser good lucking guys who really does game according to rules and he has much more luck. This gives me the confidince that it is improvable!.
Saturday I went out. Before I went I checked some pus video's, I dressed myself up the best I could and in my inner game I thought I was good lucking this night and I am not that guy anymore who keeps thinking nobody wants him cozz he looks so not attractive. ( inner game not saying it was true
)
First up I see a girl standing alone in red. I go up to her and I say :'' Hey, you look really nice... red'' She looked strange and looked away and I failed with a really sucky pickup line.
The whole time in the club I am thinking about what to say as a pick up line and then what to say in the first 2 minutes.. I am not the type of guy that can do it with just dancing with a girl. I don't feel comfortable with that and I won't ever get that confidence. I really need to do it with a good pick up line to open it up and not getting looked at strange right away. And then something to say for the first 2 minutes that doesn't involve in ''Hey you live here?'' ''You study around here?'' Most naturals just start dancing behind a girl, but some do go up to her and talk. If anyone here could write down a small conversation you had the last time you did that as an example.. Awesome!
Later I saw 2 girls standing in the smoking area where talking is alot easier. I wanted to go.. But again I just had no clue how to open it. ( and no I really can't see me doing opinion openers in a club like that. at this smoking area it could be good to transition but not to open for me.. ) And at this 2 set I kept thinking the whole time. That it was not a 2 set that I could ever get. Then the next day I see her at a store working. And I open up a talk with her so easy.. And talk to her so easy and she smiled, laugh. This means that my thinking about sets wanting me just sucks in clubs. And I know I just fail in the club when I apply the 3 second rule.
Then outside I see 2 girls sitting on a bench. I was with 2 girl friends and they went off getting the jackets. I did here imply the 3 second rule for the first time! Walked up to them and I was so easy cool.. I said :''Hey girls do you mind if I sit here?'' ''My friends are getting the jackets and if I'm standing their alone I look so friendless! and thats not so cool''. After that I diddn't kept talking non stop to them. I looked away, looked back at me checked what was going on. Then say something to them again. Do the same thing again and I had succse with this! And one of them was stunning. Then the best part is I add her on fb and she said I thought I was really funny.. But all that I just can't take it in the club!!
Guys I hope you can help me out with this. Would really love you all! I am not getting any further in progress.. To make things a bit easier. This was me at this night. Maybe give me some challenges with just one straight up routine I should with one opener and a few lines to say after that and open up like 10 2 sets with that
http://www.partypalacenewyork.nl/upload ... 0315-2.jpg
http://www.partypalacenewyork.nl/upload ... 0214-4.jpg
CHAT
