Went out last night with my usual sarging buddies, and we stopped by this hookah bar. The waitress was an amazing 10, easily. We talked, she blushed, had the puppy dog look, and I lock propped her by giving her my bracelet to hold onto until the next time we hungout. She was so excited. We planned to go bar hop tonight, but she just informed me she is working again, got called in. She txted me and said "come by tonight, or we definitely need to hangout some time real soon". My predicament is this... Her place is open till 4, I'm doing a bar crawl till 2. If I stop by for hookah after, imm be buzzed and not top of my game, and she would be working and hard to talk to. Should I go and not let a day pass, or wait?

Pace ya drinking man and show up just before closing time...

Or, risk blowing the whole thing. Strike while the iron's hot.

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Hit her back with something like: "Thanks, but I'm not doing hookah tonight. Headed to a pub crawl and after party, but I want to hang. HMU when you're off work and I'll give you directions."

The important thing is to be in control here. Don't jump through her hoops, get her jumping through yours.

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You will be far more likely to regret what you haven't done than what you have.
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Be the man you want to be while living the life you want to live.
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I only have three rules
1. Make It Fun
2. Show Don't Tell
3. Be Genuine

^ Risky

Sometimes you just gotta jump through some of her hoops, if you force her to chase too much she might just throw you in the too-hard-basket. And she finishes at 4am, do you think she will go out of her way after a long night at work? Maybe, but why not just rock up at 3:30 and when she finishes and you're right there, make it easy for her, sometimes you just gotta do it.

I've picked up a few waitresses and every time I did it the same way, chat em up, come back just before close, never failed.

Sometimes you can be TOO alpha.

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Ok so I txted her last night before she was off and told her I was possibly going to have time to drop by but if not, for her to txt me when she gets off (we had talked about getting together after work also). Well, didn't have time to swing by, and she didn't reply to my txt. So now ill just look like a weird clingy dude if I try and txt her again, right? I mean I sent her two about last night and no reply, but she was extremely eager to see me again so I'm not quite sure why.