| Sounds like a bit of a silly question - but as far as I'm concerned if it's a second date or something there's a lot expected, basically you should really be sleeping with each other by the end of the night. But someone it didn't work out that way for me on Friday night and I'm not quite sure what went wrong.
I'd normally expect to drink some alcohol / wine, watch a film, talk rubbish, and do a lot of touchy feely stuff. But for some reason there was a lot of resistance and I didn't feel comfortable pressing too far, and I guess she didn't either. But we still talked and at least I thought, had a good time. Kissed at the end of the night, for a minute, and then left, all was well.
But she didn't text back or call the next day, and when I sent a message to see how she was doing, just sensed that she was weird about it. So I haven't bothered at all today. And she's not tried to get in touch at all.
Now, this is obviously a dead end - I am not going to make any more contact with her. But I am a bit confused, personally. Maybe I came across as needy on the night? Maybe I wasn't fun? Maybe going to her place on a second date set all sorts of alarm bells ringing in her head? But I am not in the game to mess people about, so I would like to think I don't give off those sorts of signals.
Anyway, that about covers it. What would you do? Do you go to her place and just chill until she gives a signal? Do you immediately try and push your luck? Or do you just guide yourself by your instincts like I did? I don't know.
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