I'm getting SO much more better with girls, as I'm doing it I'm starting to realize what areas I need work with. So guys, I'm going to list a few things and I'd really like your help with it:

How do I demonstrate that I can protect her (physically/financially) and how do I show her status? At this point I hv none of these things HOW do I gain them. ANY advice would be appreciated.

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Financially? Money means bugger all I know dudes with tonnes of money that can't pick-up to save themselves, and I know dudes who are broke who get heaps. As long as you got enough to go out and go to the movies and shit like that then she'll be happy. If she's dating you for money then leave.

Physically... It's 80% attitude, 20% strength. If you ACT like you can protect her then she'll be satisfied, and if you get into a fight for what ever reason, then just start swinging, you're better off losing a fight then running. But seriously how often does that come up? I reckon that's maybe happened twice in my entire life and I'm 30. Some dodgy areas yea ya get it more but geez I've dated girls for years and I've never had to "protect" her physically. If you really wanna hold your own in a punch-up do some boxing training or something.

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Well that sorta' makes sense but maybe I'm just more serious about my goals. Financially I'm messed up, I don't hv a car of an apartment and don't hv the money for simple things like you mentioned -- so yes, I'd need help in that area.

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Oh you're THAT screwed?

Yea you need to work on that, if you got your own place you increase your lays by 30% at least, and chicks are much more likely to come back for a second visit. Last thing chicks want when they wanna get laid is dealing with housemates or worse parents.

And car, yea add another 30%, no car no apartment not only does it fuck your logistics its a big DLV. Do something about it ASAP.

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