a little background on this...met this chick on facebook...chatted for a few days and then number closed...she still wont share her pic and is very shy...cant talk that much on the phone but displays little interest like calling me handsome and funny...so she says shed rather meet than send her puc lool...strange..it is understandable since she is young in high school and worse than anything else a muslim....so we chat for days..i say i am cool by meeting her without seeing her pic...later our interaction dies and then i contact her after months...she still is single so i try to meet up first says yes then says we should be friends..w.t.f? chick blows hot and cold..but as i said she is young very shy and has no experience with many guys.....so how do i deal with this? tonight was the worst...she said i can never love a guy like you coz u dont have the qualities....the qualities of a muslim i guess lol.....sorry for the long post...any advice would be appreciated.

Man why are you wasting your time with this chick? She's a young flaky religious virgin and you don't even know what she looks like?

Anyway if for whatever reason you're keen you just have to be the adult in this situation. She has no idea what she's doing so guide her through it, let her know you've been there and that she can ask you anything she wants. Be an open book, be the wise man who has all the answers. She's inexperienced but she's also curious, she wants to know about sex and dating, so be that guiding light that knows all and sees all.

Pull her up to your level, don't descend down to hers, be the bigger, wiser person here. Listen to her, but take control.

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man this muslim chick are a hard nut to crack..i am sure some would call it a limiting belief but any pua who has been with muslim girls knows how tough it is to get them to bed...but anyway thanks for your advice...but how do you lead such a passive chick and sometimes when i try to lead she kinda pulls away...what do u do with a girl of that sort?

Muslims are tough they are so indoctrinated from birth about how they are suppose to live their lives it can be extremely tricky to undo.

Look if it was me I'd walk away, so many chicks out there ready to give it up why bother.

Lead by asking questions, if you ask enough questions she'll lead it there herself. She's definitely wondered about sex and stuff like that, so ask he questions, eg...

- Do you think what it would be like to date someone?
- Is it something you might want in the future?

Stuff like that, just ask questions. This girl has definitely thought about sex and is curious about, so if you ask the right questions she'll come to the conclusion herself that she wants to try it at some stage. Once you got her in that mindset then you're on the right track.

Look it's doable, but could be a long long road.

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