Split up with a long term girlfriend about two months ago.

Shortly after met a hot girl at a party. She actively chased me got my number and initiated a meeting.

Things escalated quickly loads of texts / Facebook / emails. Went on quite a few good dates with her everything seemed fine. Both seemed to get on really well she confirmed she liked me and found me attractive.

Stayed at hers a couple of times and all seemed good.

Then out of the blue she suddenly seemed to get a bit depressed had a shitty week for one reason and another and she said she just needed a bit if space. Not wanting to be clingy I said fine cooled of for a couple of days.

We were going to meet on the Friday for coffee and she cancelled. I then had to go away with work for a week and we didn't speak at all. Emailed her when I got back to say hi and that's when I got the lets just be friends....with no real reason.

I replied and said no worries I understand teased her a little but she then said we should go for coffee at some point. Again I didn't want to seem to needy and ask why so brushed it off.

So I want to try and get things back on track but don't know what to.

1 ) Directly challenge her ask her why possibly meet her face to face? (I would like to know and it could help improve my game)
2 ) Leave it and wait for her to contact me. Get the frame back to myself. Then casually / slowly try and escalate again?
3 ) just give up stop thinking about it and move on.

Any suggestions welcome.

Ps I know it might sound like oneitis but I am quite into her. Either way I have another date lined up already to keep me fresh.

Hey bro just from what I read it seems to me you were going too slow and she has moved on.
Seems like she was giving plenty of clues to do more than flirt and date but Idk. I would move on let her see your having fun with other girls she should either get jealous and try to get your Attention again or just play it off like oh well

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Ok - 3 possibilities:

1) You were her side guy while she was on a break with someone else... She got back with someone else and you're shit out of luck.

2) Something turned her right the fuck off quickly. She snooping through your phone (if there was anything to find)?

3) Who the fuck knows? Girls are weird and illogical.


If your posts reads the way things actually went down then you're done with this one. She's friend-zoned you and given you zero reason.

He could just text her in a sexy way - might not work, but might work.