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Hey Mate, I live in the UK as well and I'm European.
Why does she need a visa to stay in the UK if she is European. I'm guessing she is Eastern European correct me if I'm wrong. Typical case where the girl uses the guy as a provider. I know this from experience.
She doesn't want you to be her boyfriend. If she did, she would have mentioned this before already.
However if you want her to be your girlfriend you should tell her that. If she doesn't agree then walk, because to me it's clear that you want things to be exclusive. Any other situation you'll get hurt, she'll find another provider for her.
The landlord excuse is not necessarily BS btw, my landlord wouldn't let me have my girlfriend staying at my place so it's not uncommon here.
hiya. this girl is from eastern europe. but i would say she didn't use me at the beginning. we pay separately. there was one time she paid 20 pounds for our movie tickets. she has gone through a lot of shit after she arrived. she lost her job recently, and she almost have to return to her own country.
i know what she was thinking. her ex colleague is from her country. so she might think that it's better to invest in him. if she is not staying in england, there is no point of having a serious relationship with me. i respect her choice. and i won't invest in her
well, she is offering to pay me half the rent. but i am not too comfortable to live with her after what happened last week. it is true that my landlord doesn't like people to stay over. i could always break the rule if i want to. just not for this girl
