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Onoma
PostPosted: Tue Sep 24, 2013 6:18 pm 
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So in a little bit of a weird situation, I basically live with my ex who I'm still in love with. We're talking about getting back together, but for now she's told me to "consider myself single." Quite possibly a trap, but whatever...

The problem is, there's no way I'm bringing a girl back here... but I feel like if we're in a situation where she wants to go back to my place I can't think of anything to give as a reason that doesn't make it sound bad.
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Why give a reason? When you try and get "logical" with a girl... They start thinking logical things too... things like "Why am I about to have sex with some guy I've known for 2 hours?" Being able to overcome objections and obstacles is a huge factor if you want to be able to pull girls

Just bring the girl somewhere else... A hotel, a bathroom, your car, her car, her house, an alley. Have that shit figured out man and it makes it alot easier.
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Who gives a shit what she told you to consider yourself?

Move out.

Until then, figure out a good discreet place to bang and take girls there instead. Say your apartment's being bug-bombed or something. She'll know you're lying but if she wants to fuck, she'll get the hint and fuck you somewhere else.

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Onoma
PostPosted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 9:17 pm 
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Why give a reason?
Just in case she asks.
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Being able to overcome objections and obstacles is a huge factor if you want to be able to pull girls
Agreed, and I was hoping for some tips on how to do that..
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don't worry if she asks.... she hasn't earned the right to be at ur place yet.... period. I'd take her to a hotel.

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don't worry if she asks.... she hasn't earned the right to be at ur place yet.... period. I'd take her to a hotel.
Lol, she hasn't earned the right to go back to your place but you're gonna drop at least $50.00 on a hotel...

Take her to your car or go to her place.

I know a little about still being "in love" with your ex. Get out of there. If she wants you she'll ask you to stay but I guarantee she's sleeping with someone else. Don't torture yourself. Move out and move on asap.

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don't worry if she asks.... she hasn't earned the right to be at ur place yet.... period. I'd take her to a hotel.
Lol, she hasn't earned the right to go back to your place but you're gonna drop at least $50.00 on a hotel...

Take her to your car or go to her place.

I know a little about still being "in love" with your ex. Get out of there.
Heh... slightly more complicated than that. I'm actually buying the place from her... closing on Friday.
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If she wants you she'll ask you to stay but I guarantee she's sleeping with someone else. Don't torture yourself. Move out and move on asap.
She's definitely not sleeping with someone else. She's home with me every night, and even if she snuck someone upstairs I'd hear it...
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Friend house, hotel, her place, car

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My excuse when my ex-wife and I stilled lived together while we were waiting on our house to sell and divorce to finalize. "My roommate has his/her kids for the weekend". Worked perfectly every time.
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