So. Whole story is this.

I met this girl a while ago.. its been bout 8-9 months since. She's Chinese, so more sexually inhibited than most Western girls. We saw each other a few times and it was going pretty well. I got her back to mine once but unfortunately... I messed it up. Looking back I realise she was definately giving me the opportunity to seal the deal.... but I didn't try til she was leaving but it didnt go much further than a bit of kissing and a clumsy fondle.

I saw her a couple times after but I think the way I was coming across wasnt great in hindsight. Trying to get her back to mine, being too suggestive. It got harder and harder to talk to her and eventually I gave up.

I didnt talk to her for bout 5-6 months.. maybe even longer. But I msged her a few weeks ago and we got talking a bit again. She said she'd thought bout me since then.. and we ended up going on a nite out. During the nite I couldnt help but feel she was a bit stand offish.. altho we did have fun. At the end she got a cab home tho... in fairness, it is true I live really far away from her and we just started meeting again... as I said shes not the type to jump into bed with guys. Probably worth pointing out a story she told me bout the last guy she went out with in UK. Apparently he chased her for a long time (she said about a year) and from what she told me it sounds like he just fucked her for a month than split.

Anyway. I know that if I ask she'll come out again but any tips on how to move it forward? Shes hot.. but kinda immature in some ways. Don't think shes that experienced with relationships and shes not very good at flirting. Or maybe she just doesnt want to with me? On one hand.. its clear I like her and she seems encouraging but then again, she feels like a bit of a cold fish with me and starting to think maybe we're after different things.

Any experts with some handy advice?

If she sucked at flirting, would that guy have chased her for a year?

You've been Friendzoned, NEXT.

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