I'm going to make this really short and simple:

I'm the type of guy who used to hook up a lot. I used to get kiss-closes on first dates from different girls every single night. I met this girl from one of my friends who was dating her; however, they broke up and I got really attached to the girl to the level that we first became best friends. One night, we were drunk and managed to kiss and do a bit of sexual stuff. We both liked it, she traveled for 2 months, and for 2 months we talked 24/7 non-stop. I even stopped hooking up with other girls and stopped pubbing. She came back and our first night wasn't all that perfect, but it was great. However, it's been around 5 days now and I'm falling deeply in love with this girl. So you guys are probably wondering what's the problem here...Last saturday we went pubbing and she saw this guy who always jokes around with her. She knows that he wants to date her. She told me that she is attached to me before; but yet, she went up to him by taking my permission. I said yes because I wanted her to be free to do anything she wants, plus we are not officially dating so I can't take full control of her life. So she starts to joke around this guy for most of the time while I sit with my group and bounce from friend to friend. To be honest, I got really jealous and I admitted it in the end, and I can't know if this was a good move or a bad move.

She fought with him the same night because he wanted to hook up with her. And today we went out, was a bit boring because she was tired but things got pretty well. She knows I love her, but the question is, does she love me back? I know this is childish, but she promised she won't kiss another guy until she gets married and that she's disgusted from all the other guys except me, and I told her the same thing, because it's the truth. I'm deeply in love with this girl and I want to admit it soon...when is the right time? and what's with joking too much around the guy who she fought with? I don't think she wanted me to get jealous but I want your opinions on this issue.

I want to know the best way to go through this, I've never been in a real relationship before and I want to take the right approach to do it. So please, give me your opinions on this scenario and how exactly should I handle it.

PS: I'm showing her a lot of attention and always playing with her hair and joking around because I want her to know that she's my one.

Thanks a lot guys, appreciate every response

Way too late for damage control. She's lying to you and has you wrapped around her little finger. You have insane ONEITIS and need to NEXT this girl immediately, for your own health and sanity.

And just as an aside, women are not capable of loving men in the way you want them to be. I know you don't want to hear that, but the sooner you accept it, the more freedom you will experience in your dealings with them.

They "fall in love" with guys who fuck the shit out of them, then "fall out of love" when they either start fucking someone else, who becomes the "guy they're in love with," or get tired of fucking you.

It's just a game to them, so play it. Fuck them good and don't be boring. You've already massively Betaized yourself in this relationship, so I think you'll have plenty of opportunities to FIND NEW WOMEN in the very near future.

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Thanks a lot for the response I appreciate it.

I think there's still time to talk this over, I was thinking of admitting that I'm in love with her.

I can't stand the fact of moving on, it's really hard...