Hey guys, this is a very specific question...

What do you say when a girl says/texts/whatever something like "really bad day "?

They're obviously looking for you to cheer them up or whatever, I don't want to be a heartless douche because I'm not, if a girls miserable I'll cheer her up...equally, I don't want to get stuck with someone laying all their shit on me.

Also, can't help thinking its a shit test.

For me, the Game is about having the skills to get and maintain an awesome relationship that fulfills me and my partner.

Part of that is being with someone who can handle their own shit.

Should I look to "train" girls to handle their own stuff or just ignore the ones who whine?

Thanks again,
Hal

Tell her you can comfort her, and to come to your place.

Davidr981, nice idea...

If she comes over I can cheer her up, escalate and see what happens.

If she's up for it, fucking awesome...if she's not, she's now comfortable being at my place.

I'd not thought of that, we both get something out of it that way

Thanks for the tip dude

Hal