hi everybody,

So the other day i was working at a mall in a stand and suddenly there showed up this girl working for another stand. She stayed there with us and we small talked and flirted a lot. From time to time I went going after my work and then I came back and we started talking again. She also had conversations with another girl from my stand. After a while i was pretty sure that she was into me, i were into her after a few minutes
So i started thinking of when to get her number or ask for a date or something, but i was pretty sure that if i asked her in front of my colleagues (three girls), she would reject me, i just kinda had that feeling. So i waited for a good situation where we were alone but it didn't work, all the time someone of my team was present.

At the end i thought to myself fuck it, never mind. But the girl was too cute. And she was talking about her birthday party all the time, for once i said that she should invite us, but she ignored it.


So the time arrived when i had to leave, and as i was leaving with one of the girls of my stand she yelled sth to us and i suddenly recognized my last chance to set up a connection and yelled back "hey, don't forget to invite us to ur birthday". She then said, yea, come back and give me ur numbers.

So we went back and she handed her phone to the other girl, after that she gave it to me. I typed in my number and starter calling it to get hers. she said sth about it but seemed to be cool with it.

So all that happened yesterday. next week is her birthday party, i never knew her, neither i will met her somewhere. The question is, should i txt her, like tomorrow or on monday, or should i wait for the time of the party to arrive to see if she calls me or not? Im afraid by that time she won't have that "good feeling" in mind regarding our conversations.

the point is, i didn't really asked for her number, but it was kinda like we both liked to xchange them..so I'm afraid of being a little bit weird if i txt her….



guys don't ignore this post plz, I'm really desperate about how to act right now, i know there are tons of girls out there, but she was really the type of girl i would like to date/hit on/whatever
Should i call her/txt her/what should i do?


FERNANDO
Paris

Well, a week is not a lot of time, chances are you may still have a connection with her even if she does not invite you to her party. If I was in your place, I would wait to see what happened and text her after the party if she did not send an invitation.

Even if she does not invite you, there is still a chance she likes you, it could be for any number of reasons. Maybe she did not like one of your colegues and doesen't want to make it awkward by inviting the others and leaving one out, maybe she does not want to introduce people she does not know very well into her group of friends, etc.

Tell her the truth. Tell her who u r and That u got a number from such and such and u wanted to get to know her better if that's cool. If she says no then u got ur answer but if she says yes talk to her get to know her maybe by the end of ur chat she will invite u to the party. And I agree that it's no big deal if she doesn't invite u. Like he said it could b a number of reasons. But wat ever it may b don't bring up the party and don't go if she don't invite u that's really sketchy.

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did you have her number? if you don’t then you are not a pua. this forum is not for you. haha

I would text her... I agree don't mention the party just talk to her, flirt with her and build up rapport/attraction. if you keep mentioning the party she could find you as an annoying pest and quite creepy. Don't be too pressed either... remember there's tons of beautiful single women out there... be non-chalant like you don't mind the outcome out of all of this. Remember to have fun with it and build up attraction.... the worse thing that can happen if that you end up befriending her then end up dating one of her friends.

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well thx for your replies guys, i appreciate that.

I have to mention that she knows that i have her number. When she handed me her phone to type in mine, i asked her if her caller id is activated and at the same time called my own number, she was kind of surprised but not in an angry way, she seemed to be cool with it, she said sth like "hah, clever, taking my number" (with laughter), i then said that i have to do this to know who is calling me, cause i don't answer incoming calls from unknown numbers (which is absolute bullshit:D) but it was my last chance, otherwise she could have just erased my number out of her phone.

So you guys either think I should wait and see if she contacts me for the party or the second option is to text her.

Regarding the party: I only asked her to invite us to kind of stay in contact with her, in any other case I would never ask such a thing towards any stranger whom I knew a few hours only.

Its a weird situation which I've never been into so guys i need some advice, and as always, i know that there are plenty more, but it wouldn't be bad if i could date her