I have a massive issue with a girl in one of my uni classes. I recently found out that she really likes me and I also really realy like her, I added her on Facebook, she gave me her number and we arrange to meet in a club and just chat for a bit. However I was really really drunk and left the club and was sick outside, when I when to come back in the bouncers wouldn't let me in, they said I was on drugs (which I wasn't) so I rang her and she left all her friends to come and meet me outside, we talked for a while and she had her hands round my waist and there was attraction there, however i may of gone a bit to far with the negs. Anyway she said she knows the bouncer I'll get you back in and I said don't worry he hates me and im to drunk, she asked him and he told her I was on drugs, she came back far from impressed and told me what the bouncer had said, I tried to explain and say there was a miss understanding but she didn't believe me. The next morning I text her to apologise for being such a mess and if any of my behaviour had offended her I was sorry i was inappropriate and disrespectful, she text back saying don't worry you were just a bit drunk. I sent her two more text to which see replied instantly but with very little in conversation as if she didnt want me to reply, so I just left it. The next night I saw her out again and Said I was sorry to her face and told her I was not on drugs and they were the last thing I would do. I then saw her later on in the evening and offered to buy her a drink, I took her hand and let go slightly and lead her through the crowd, she squeezed tightly (IOI?) I didn't intend to buy her a drink I wanted her to buy me one and invested in me. I tried playing the neil Strauss 5 questions lying game, to which she wouldn't and said she doesn't lie, anyway she eventually did play and I won but she refused to buy me a drink. I left her alone and saw her again just before the end of the night later but she seemed to be off with me, A few days later I saw her in class and she didn't say high she just raised her eyebrows at me, her body language looked slightly off and she wouldn't hold the door for me, shes obviously pissed at me, I think her opinion has change of me and she thinks im an egotistical, arrogant idiot, which im not, however this didnt come across on the two nights. the obvious thing for me to do is to forget her but I see her all the time and I cant, I really like her. Can a girl really lose attraction that quick? What can I do? I . is this situation reversible?

Sounds like you were trying to hard too apologise about being drunk, then tried to hard to win her back with stupid PUA games. You had her in the bag and seems like you had at least a few day window where she was F-closable, but instead of F-closing you acted like a wimp, she lost interest and now that she doesn't wanna fuck you anymore she's got no time for you.

Once chicks open the F-close window you have to take it, wait too long and she'll think you're a loser for not taking it, then close the F-close window in your face. Recognising when she is F-closable is pretty much the key to F-closing at all. Once that door is closed very hard to reopen.

Just build some comfort back, and escalate again, keep it simple, you might still have a chance, but next time F-CLOSE HER!!!

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