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Trevino
 Post subject: I need a pep talk!
PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:13 pm 
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I am getting back in the game after several years. Although I am a bit nervous about being on my own again I am excited as well. I had a tight game before I decided to look for a LTR and I got what I wanted. At least it seemed I did at first but that is whole other story.

Anyways, if anyone can give me a good pep talk, some words of wisdom, some encouragement, maybe some good motivational links, and a punch in the balls to get me back in gear I would appreciate it!

Thanks!
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Wolfwoodd
 Post subject: Re: I need a pep talk!
PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:18 pm 
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My favorite pep talk. :D
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This is a very simple personal motto that's really helped me stay motivated and power through AA, bad states, poor logistics, rejections, etc. It's a simple way to reframe yourself as a guy who does, rather than a guy who thinks.

GATA is a very simple acronymn that's become my personal creed over the past few months.

GATA="Get After That Ass!!!!!!"

For me, this has been the 3 second rule, "Make the ho say no!," State, subcommunication, alpha-ness, persistence, all of that stuff rolled into one. It teaches you to think on your feet and build confidence within yourself. It harnesses your sexual energy into something productive.

You see a girl you think is cute? GATA!

Approach Anxiety killing you? GATA!

Don't know an opener? GATA!

Unsure what to say next? GATA!

Approach angle sucks? GATA!

Dressed like shit when a HB appears? GATA!

You get shot down by 10 girls? GATA!

Afraid you might show too much interest/neediness? GATA!

Intimidated in any way? GATA!

Nervous about escalating? GATA!

Don't know how to DHV and neg the target while feeling the Nimbus upon you and disarming obstacles while preparing your timebridge to the Day2 sex location? Fuck all that! GATA!

In the end, taking right action and just approaching girls will do more for you than reading (or stressing over) any theory or technical aspect of PU, which IMO only refine that into a more precise skillset in the hands of a seducer who already has this basic stuff handled.

You may think you're an artist, but an artist is someone who creates SOMETHING through ACTION! You've got to take the ACTION to be an artist. You've got to take the ACTION to ACHIEVE ANYTHING! Otherwise you're just a mental masturbator.

When you're out sarging, don't worry about the precise technical stuff in the moment. That will just fuck you up. If you feel any anxiety, any uncertainty, remember to GATA! GATA trumps the negativity and the excuses.

Now go GET AFTER THAT ASS!!!!!!
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Trevino
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 4:05 pm 
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GATA! I like it!

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Heywood Jablowme
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 4:57 pm 
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1. Make sure you are over her, you have to be completely over your ex before you get back into the game. Having leftover 'oneites' is like a screen door on a submarine. Women will immediately radar that shit and avoid you like car maintenance.

2. If you've gotten fat, and lazier than a US senator, get back in shape you useless sloth! Even if your uglier than Andy Dick, when you get yourself trim women notice, your self esteem and confidence levels will shoot up x10.

3. CELEBRATE! Your over mourning the loss of the wicked witch, it's done! Get your Bro's and some Hoe's together. After listening to your bitching and whining the last few weeks/months/years, they'll be almost as eager as you are for a big night out WITHOUT all the tears. Explain that, in one night, you plan to try, everything that you couldn't do before, while under tyrannical rule. Take in a bar crawl, get shit faced, and enjoy a strip club or two.

4. Engage all comers. It's a new life, make new friends, don't focus on the hot girls, open yourself up to all women. Approaching and opening only your previewed choice is very limiting, outcome dependent behavior.

5. STOP watching porn, that pimply 'barley legal' 38 year old skinny skank with the beer bottle half way in her pussy isn't coming over. Wipe up the dried remains of your spilled future children off that secretary chair, and get the fuck out of the house.

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