Got a date with a real cute chick but after this weekend I will be out of the country for a month. She knows this but is still down to meet up she seems pretty interested... Anyone got some suggestions? I basically got one date to give a nice good first impression, can't have a mild regular date or I lose right away...

Memorable dates don't always have to be you doing something out of the ordinary. Its just how excited your whole interaction with the girl is, as long as she is still interacting with you via text/phone calls you are fine. i just went out with a cute blond on thursday for drinks and the worse thing about my date was all these flood flashes(Pouring Rain) I have had in the state I live in. But at the end of the night I walked my date to her parents house out of my car you bet your ass we were making out hard while it was pouring rain.

I just met this girl 3 weeks ago and I was out of state for two weeks and I came back Sunday. So in general man it doesn't matter what you do date wise man as long as its memorable for the girl through out what you do within the date. Best thing to do if your old enough is take her for drinks and then a walk. The more places/venues you take your date the better. It will seem like she has gone on 2-3 dates in one day if you are taking her to different venues throughout the date.

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don't do something crazy or memorable, your goal should be a date that will lead to the highest probability of f-closing before you leave. That would be meeting up at night somewhere near either your home (ideally) or hers.

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Fuck her real good and that will be very memorable to her rather than some Bollywood-style sing-and-dance number at the Taj Mahal.

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Fclose on the first meetup/date? I doubt she would be down, she is too much of a nice girl with trust issues. She seems genuinely interested and said she is really excited and can't wait to meet up but she isn't blowing up my phone like I had with girls in the past... Still new to the game of seduction but I'll lay may game down and push for an fclose but I am staying with my parents so I can't even take her to my place like that... She lives with fam too...

I was thinking of taking her out for a quick dinner then drinks and games at like D&B or something?
I've done this with another girl and it worked like a charm but I don't know how fun a repeat of a date would be for me...

dude.. major drag. might be an idea to include a decent hotel bar in the plans, then there's the option of a 'spontaneous' check into a room instead of taxi home

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Dude. Don't take this the wrong way but listen to me: Who are you to decide for her whether or not she is willing to have sex with you on a first date? Is that your decision? No. It is hers. Don't make the decision for her before you even meet her! You would be doing a disservice by not giving her the opportunity. If the logistics make it impossible (parents / etc.) that's one thing, but you should always be trying to see how far you can go because women rarely will escalate even if they want to so you have to escalate FOR THEM.

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Well the date felt like a HUGE FAIL, she lost her ID before so we just settled for dinner... It was kinda awkward and she was very shy/quiet at first but by the end of the date she couldn't stop talking so it coulda been worse... Only got in small amount of kino and not even a k-close... She still texted me thanking me for tonight and how it was nice meeting me but I never had a date this bad in my life... I would be surprised if there was a day 2... smh

Usually my dates are more natural and things just work out, can't believe this one... The girl was gorgeous but definitely didn't connect as well as I have with other girls on the first date... #feelsbadman