High % of flakes even among girls that asked for my number?



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 5:23 pm 
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I have noticed a high % of girls that doesnt respond to my texts after having a pretty interesting night with them... There are even some among them that asked for MY number upon leaving, who then either dont reply at all, or come up with several "excuses" to not be abled to go on a day 2, and never suggesting another date when they are available.

Whats the deal with this?


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 5:40 pm 
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They don't like you bro. Just keep going and you'll eventually be able to weed out the ones that don't like you alot easier and you won't waste time on them.

The more effort you put into a gal, the less chance you have of hittin it.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 5:41 pm 
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Examples of your text/call game and how long you usually wait.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 5:48 pm 
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+1 to the above and also give examples of interactions with women, approximate duration etc.

Some girls might be giving you their number or even asking for yours just to get rid of you.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:27 pm 
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Examples of your text/call game and how long you usually wait.
My typical text game is sending them a joke / inside joke (like something we experienced that night) instantly upon receiving the number or immediatly after. And then i usually text them back like 2 days later briefly asking them how they are doing and fairly directly suggest going out for a drink without saying much bullshit in between.
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+1 to the above and also give examples of interactions with women, approximate duration etc.

Some girls might be giving you their number or even asking for yours just to get rid of you.
The most recent one seemed totally into me. When i told her during a conversation that me and my friend were gonna go to another club later she instantly asked if shes can come with us. Later she asked me if id come with her to an isolation place in the club, and finally when her friend wanted to leave she asked for my number. Doesnt quite sound like she wanted to get rid of me imo..


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 7:47 pm 
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Just be persistent and don't give up at the first hurdle or obstacle. Phone girls if you find the flake rate is high when texting. Also try to be more sexual and direct with your first interactions, try to make out with more women the first time you meet them, instead of being desperate to close for her number. I have lost count of the number of times i have made out with a girl one night then not seen her for a while, then bumped into her again and ended up fucking her the 2nd or 3rd night i see her (without swapping numbers until after the deed). Dont be too eager for the number, it can create distance between you, keep it fun and spontaneous. Go for a same night lay if the vibe is right, then you give yourself the option of NOT giving her your number if she sucks in bed or has saggy boobs etc. Sure, go for the number if it feels right, but just be more explicit with your seduction and build more of an emotional connection before going for the number.

Heavy seductive eye contact, touch them a lot, basically make your intentions more obvious from the outset BEFORE she gets the chance to put you in the friend zone. Don't get obsessed with that one chick who seemed totally into you. Keep practising. Lots of young girls will be busy socialites and the hotter they are, the less space they will have for you in their diary. Try varying your day 2 suggestions; eg. If Friday / Saturday dates keep getting flaked, try Monday - Thursday instead. Give about 48 hours' notice; any less and it's too soon, any more and they will forget or make other plans.


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Just be persistent and don't give up at the first hurdle or obstacle. Phone girls if you find the flake rate is high when texting. Also try to be more sexual and direct with your first interactions, try to make out with more women the first time you meet them, instead of being desperate to close for her number. I have lost count of the number of times i have made out with a girl one night then not seen her for a while, then bumped into her again and ended up fucking her the 2nd or 3rd night i see her (without swapping numbers until after the deed). Dont be too eager for the number, it can create distance between you, keep it fun and spontaneous. Go for a same night lay if the vibe is right, then you give yourself the option of NOT giving her your number if she sucks in bed or has saggy boobs etc. Sure, go for the number if it feels right, but just be more explicit with your seduction and build more of an emotional connection before going for the number.

Heavy seductive eye contact, touch them a lot, basically make your intentions more obvious from the outset BEFORE she gets the chance to put you in the friend zone. Don't get obsessed with that one chick who seemed totally into you. Keep practising. Lots of young girls will be busy socialites and the hotter they are, the less space they will have for you in their diary. Try varying your day 2 suggestions; eg. If Friday / Saturday dates keep getting flaked, try Monday - Thursday instead. Give about 48 hours' notice; any less and it's too soon, any more and they will forget or make other plans.
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