I have a girl coming over this Thursday night. She has already told me -
"We are not having Sex Thursday night, and if there is any funny business I'll cut your dick off"
To which I replied... "What, with your teeth?"
Today is Monday.
However... she has continued to hint that she wants to have sex "in the future" and that shes worth the wait.
The problem is she has a boyfriend AND I work with her.
I have had her over before a fair while ago but was unable to break through her lmr and asd. I teasingly have hinted at us doing for ages now and so has she.
I have tried to free her logical mind with finally saying that "Ohk, nothing is going to happen on Thursday night... I honestly just want to see you. " When honestly I want to fuck her brains out. Have I done this to late however and flagged to much interest?
This was my plan.
Continue to build sexual tension at work which is easy to do.
Continue to play the card that we wont have sex Thursday night.
When she comes to my apartment, the first thing I was going to do was a move modeled off Sinn which is to grab her by the neck and push her up against the wall and then kiss her. Then carry on like everything is normal. Shes already told me she's into being choked during sex... So... guess it could help?
Plan after that was just to go grab food, come back, eat, suggest looking at some artwork and music I've been working on upstairs in my room. Go upstairs, show her while having her sit on my lap. Suggest watching a movie in my room. While on the bed... escalation ladder during the movie... not straight away into the movie however.. I got to play the timing right. She has told me already however that she isn't staying the night. And unfortunately she is on driving restrictions... which gives me maybe just 4-5 hours to work with so time is of the essence.
I NEED TO FUCK CLOSE THIS GIRL.
Any other ideas? Any suggestions? Anything that I am doing wrong?
Any other tactics to overcome LMR? I know I am going to be met with resistance during the escalation ladder... My problem is that I don't have a lot of time and I'm at risk of her just leaving.
It will do my head in if I again get this far and I'm left by myself alone.
CHAT