So I apparently give a good back massage... I know this girl who I've been friends with for a while. The thing is, I view her as a friend, and I'm friends with her boyfriend. Not really good friends, but he's one of the good guys. But he also lives pretty far away. So I imagine that they don't see each other too often - probably weekends. And they've been together for a few years (the amount of time it takes to get bored with someone).

So anyways, I think she's been coming on to me. I gave her a back massage, and she told me to keep going lower. I had my thumbs in her underwear - and I was really drunk at the time. Now... she did have some huge knots down there. But aside from that, she's done things like touch my hair and push herself onto me. She's really sort of awkward, and it could all be just her way of playing around, but she just asked me if I could give her regular massages for her back problems - something I've never heard about before. She didn't explain it, and she didn't mention it when I was massaging her before.

So question one, do you think she's into me? Question two, what do you think I should do if she is? Her boyfriend is a cool guy. It seems like a moral issue to me... but what do you guys think?

Tell her no it because it gives u dirty thoughts and she has a bf and you dont know if she could control herself since your so good at the massages.

50/50 she's dtf.

She may (or may not) be into you. A while ago I learned a few basic massage techniques on youtube and used that on half a dozen girls since then. Almost all seemed interested in me at the time, but most flaked when I asked them out. I belive it is because very few guys can give a good massage (or even bother trying) and most girls have some sort of romantic fantasy of having a guy massage her. But still, she may be into you and looking to party.

For the moral issue part, you should only have moral problems if you have a girlfriend. You are not responsable for anyone else's loyalty. If she wants to betray her bf, that's her problem, not yours. And besides, it's better she do it with you than with someone else, at least you have a good time. Btw, her boyfriend does not own any firearms, collect swords, is a black belt in any martial art or likes to set things on fire just because, right?

The only way to know if she's into you is to get some oil, powder or lotion and then tell her to take off her blouse/shirt. When she complies, go on with the back massage and randomly sneak your hands at her sides where the boobies are as she lies face down on the couch. Next, tell her to take off her pants so you can massage her legs as well. When you hear her moan as you touch her thighs near her pussy area, escalate your touches, pushing and pulling.

Next, tell her to lay down again and go on massaging the back of her legs and then massage her ass like it's the normal thing to do. Position yourself on top of her so you're rubbing your dick at her ass when you work at the side of her boobies. When you hear her moan some more, escalate some more. When you see her ear lobes turn red, f-close.

This way, you will know if she's into you.

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Enough said. I would only like to add that if you go for the oil, sweet almond is a good option. Btw, if you do it in your place don't forget to protect the furniture.

Hellhound with his porn addictions.

Regarding whether she's into you- it's hard to determine that from reading a few independent clauses. If it was my guess, and if I am picturing the situation correctly, I think she is.

Regarding the moral issue- nobody can tell determined your morals for you. If it was I, I wouldn't do it. I've cheated and I've been cheated on before. It goes down to two things for me: 1. I'm not so thirsty to drink someone's else juice. 2. It's not hard to find single girls.

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Our religion prohibits any form of indecency like pornographic films and such. I was never a fan of those Japanese gangbangs where a half-French, half-Japanese hot babe gets banged by more than a dozen men popping their loads into her pussy where the blue mattress inside what looks like a classroom is cum filled all over and different sizes and forms of vibrators (including something like the tentacles of an octopus) are scattered everywhere.

There's not one fat chance in the world that I'm going to watch something like that nor that evil, sleazy film of a South American woman laying a horse as the stallion munches on some hay while fucking her and kicking the dust in blissful ecstasy.

Unlike other PUAs around here, I'm a very decent and conservative gentleman with high morals. I generally shy away from profanities and vulgarities. I only mention words like pussy, fuck, cock or bang very sparingly and unless absolutely necessary.

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