Hi guys,

I realize female PUA is different from men so if there are any married guys out there who have had affairs would you please tell me how it started and what a woman could do in a situation to initiate? Some openers etc. would be appreciated. Or can you give me examples of quotes women have said to you that made you think, that is sexy, I like this girl.

My biggest problem is being too businesslike. Conversations with me tend to become business or analytical topics (ie stock market, politics) because that is my comfort zone. I can talk stocks all day but very uncomfortable getting personal which I realize after reading PUA material, is what the game is all about. Need some light fluff topics/ lines that may even be sexy but not sleazy.

the guy I want to test it on just moved into a new house down the street from mine. I've seen him out when I've biked down the street or the store down the road.

He responds well to light teasing/ negs and starts laughing whenever I get mad at him. generally he is sort of arrogant, ex marine type. He has a defense like a brick wall and does this eyeroll like, are you hitting on me? whenever women compliment him. But in the past he has told me he likes me.

BTW I'm not ug, it's generally easy for me to get guys numbers just yesterday all I had to do was wear white shorts and a v neck top to print out some copies and the guy at kinko's slipped me his number, have had guys offer to pay for my groceries at the checkout etc. The problem is I'm kind of an ice queen because I don't know how to deepen a relationship and get personal, I just stay in my comfort zone. I realize now that guys are looking for a babe to talk to who makes them feel hot, not a stock broker conversation. Need some good openers, funny redirects etc. pls help, tell me the funniest/ best things girls have said to you or changed to topic to that you really liked. thanks!

lol this is pretty funny, ill try to answer is as best i can.

ive fucked a pretty good amount of women, but have only actually genuinely been interested in dating 2, my ex girlfriend and my current girlfriend (im only 21.) Now, these two women are not the same personality-wise, at all, so i will preface this entire thing with there is not straightforward answer-at all. I often wonder why i like some girls after i fuck them and others i dont care to see again (besides shitty sex or whatever) Sometimes i want myself to like a chick more than just to fuck but i cant get myself to.

The girl i am currently dating what do i like about her? She loves to go out and party (same with me) and we always have a great time going out together. My ex? much less of a party animal, would rather stay in and watch a movie(which i enjoyed doing with her some friday nights, but with my current girl would never think about it.) My current girl always makes me laugh, and always challenges me. She gives me shit all the time, and messes around with me. My ex was the biggest sweetheart ever, was really just the nicest girl ive ever met, nothing like the sarcastic jokingly playful type like my current girlfriend. Both, of course, were freaks in the sack. There is no silver bullet, different people like different things, and it depends on your personality too. Besides for the fact that it is painfully obvious when a girl is trying to get with me, its just flat out annoying when chicks act fake all the time around me to try and get me to like them more. Be you, if he likes you itll work out, if you put on a show itll only be a matter of time before he realizes. So if i had any advice it would be dont bullshit because
1) its so easy to see through the bullshit
2) no guys like fake girls
3) most guys will just fuck you once and wont talk to you again

I'm going to 'advise' based on not male nor female gender, but rather communication.


Use Rhetoric.The art of persuasive speaking. Innuendo.

I ALWAYS twist the conversation to my favor.

i.e. (target) "I am making biscuits and gravy."

Me: "I'll warm your biscuits."

(part of an actual conversation earlier today)

Later: "I'm now making lemon poppy seed muffins."

"I love squeezing my own lemon! Haha!!, I can't believe I just said that."

The use of Metaphor, compares two things by stating one is the other, a metaphor where something being compared is referred to by something closely associated with it, like when a pussy actually is a cat. But that's not what they 'thought' you meant. But the sexual version or 'picture' they had in their head is already there.

Once you transition into a sexually charged 'fun' conversation one on one, with the other person, it is you that they picture in their minds having sex with.

Did you ever picture yourself having an ice cream on a summer after noon, but of course you were to busy at work. Then the next day is cool and cloudy, yet here you are standing in front of the damned Dairy Queen, trying to sort out a deja vu moment?

Senorita, In all likelihood you've gone shopping today, it would be my pleasure to check out your melons.

Heywood.

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I used to be married. Looking back on how I got involved with single women during my married life, I think the common denominators are two:

• 1. Sticky eye contact. Women who stuck their eyes with mine for a long while made me approach them. When I asked these women for instadates, none of them did the push-pull on me rather, they just went along. Those who did the push-pull for an extended period of time, well, I dropped them like a hot potato.
  
  2. Damsel in distress. Men, being genetically programmed as the protectors that they are, like to 'save' women from distress. A few women played this part rather well which made me feel manly and hence, got involved with them.

Only one woman whom I was hesitant to date at first did the sleazy on me. She asked over the phone whether I have a small dick. To make the long story short, we ended up fucking in the motel for a 12-hour promo plus a 4-hour extension.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

OP, you would be better posting on a women's forum of some sort. Most if not all men here, myself included, have no idea how to game men, and I'm pretty sure not one of the men in here have ever seduced a married man. So not sure why they would have a damn clue.

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This /\, I would still give my honest opinion on her boobs though.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Being a woman on her post graduate studies and working with other women, I'm pretty sure you have had your share of Oprah, hundreds of women's magazines each with half a dozen of relationship columns from people with PhDs, and, of course, several dozens of girlie BFFs.

Likewise, there are more websites online on the topic of 'how to seduce men' than 'how to seduce women'. If you want a Kantian metaphysical grip on this seduction thingy, you came to the right place. There are other female PUAs around here like you. A few are strippers who wanted to get better at what they do while some are the girlie masculine types (very competitive and driven but not necessarily dyke types) who wanted a more logical and process-oriented rather than an intuitive approach to seducing men.

However, you would still get an edge if you dropped by at Cosmopolitan once and so often.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

1.-Just display that you are very sexual but discreet...

2.-That you do not judge.

3.- that you are not interested or trying for him to break up with his relationship.

4.- That you are not a clinger or potential to be a clinger, or needy.

5.- That you respect his time and are flexible with his time.

6.- That you do not kiss and tell, even if you were angry.

There is not a how to but generally what you have to demonstrate in your qualities...

Troubleshooting:

DO NOT WEAR PERFUME(that will get him caught)

DO NOT SCRATCH AND BITE (no physical marks)

met him in a motel or neutral place for safety a plus.





Here is one post i made, similar to what you are asking:

http://www.theskillsmethod.com/how-to-s ... ied-woman/

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This advice below pretty much sums it up, i really like this advice.

The biggest tresshold would indeed be that you do not judge. Marriages are there in all forms and sorts, and some men actually did not have a choice (how weird that may even sound). Also, the situation in which the marriage was in the beginning might have changed a lot, for example: disease strikes. Whatever the reasons is, just dont judge .

The biggest fear would be the mistress exposing the 'relationship', because she is greedy and clingy.

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Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

senorita88, what age are you? you need to provoke him to want him to seduce you.

Obligatory link about the fundamentals of "girl game" (by Hitori, an oldschool female PUA): http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 78&refine=

-Wolf

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