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PostPosted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 11:17 pm 
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Hey their so I don't have the possibilty SPAM to go out each night or do daygame everyday. I'm saving money for a card so I can travel free with train everyday. Live in a small town and need to go to Amsterdam each time preferable.


And at the times I go out I want to do the most of pua practice as I can.

But in the mean time I'd like to just STUDY yea really study everything a pua should know.

I don't just mean books as the game or the mystery method but all other stuff that can help you out alot. Like certain body langueage books, how to escualate sexually, how to get nice conversations that create connection, books to learn some cold reading like the cube to get a deep connection with her. I know the cube but should be more stuff like that that you could just learn?

NLP routines, and a book with canned lines and routines. For daygame I like natural and can open. So here all the books besides pua books that could be applied to that situation are great. But for nightgame I suck at natural and I need something to study on diffrent ways to open up sets and get things going with some routines for the first minutes.

So I hope you guys understand on what kind of books I need. I got like 200 dollar to spend. I will read books and between the studying do stuff in practice and go back to reading and learning then do more real life practice.

Thanks alot!


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 5:23 am 
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I found that working on my inner game vastly improved my skill set but most importantly my life. Most of the PUA stuff can be accomplished with in the field practice. Inner well being, however, is a gift that you have to give to yourself. I didnt see it in you list so I thought I would jump in.

The Power of Now by Eckart Tolle is a great place to start.
I have seen a post that listed some other great ones. Search around.

NLP can be used to help yourself distance yourself from negative aspects of you life as well... its not all mind tricks taught by Ross Jefferies to hypnotize women. Most of the self help gurus also use NLP. Improve yourself and the women with follow!

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Hey their so I don't have the possibilty SPAM to go out each night or do daygame everyday. I'm saving money for a card so I can travel free with train everyday. Live in a small town and need to go to Amsterdam each time preferable.


And at the times I go out I want to do the most of pua practice as I can.

But in the mean time I'd like to just STUDY yea really study everything a pua should know.

I don't just mean books as the game or the mystery method but all other stuff that can help you out alot. Like certain body langueage books, how to escualate sexually, how to get nice conversations that create connection, books to learn some cold reading like the cube to get a deep connection with her. I know the cube but should be more stuff like that that you could just learn?

NLP routines, and a book with canned lines and routines. For daygame I like natural and can open. So here all the books besides pua books that could be applied to that situation are great. But for nightgame I suck at natural and I need something to study on diffrent ways to open up sets and get things going with some routines for the first minutes.

So I hope you guys understand on what kind of books I need. I got like 200 dollar to spend. I will read books and between the studying do stuff in practice and go back to reading and learning then do more real life practice.

Thanks alot!

I break down my list of seduction books here, base on my experience so read what i recommend and why, disregard the marketing bs(3 of them are very good and free)...

http://www.theskillsmethod.com/products/


Now out of seduction: how to win friends and influence people by carnagie(free on youtube), influence the psychology of persuasion by Cialdini, No more Mr. Nice guy by Glover, psychocibernetics (free on youtube)

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Hey their so I don't have the possibilty SPAM to go out each night or do daygame everyday. I'm saving money for a card so I can travel free with train everyday. Live in a small town and need to go to Amsterdam each time preferable.


And at the times I go out I want to do the most of pua practice as I can.

But in the mean time I'd like to just STUDY yea really study everything a pua should know.

I don't just mean books as the game or the mystery method but all other stuff that can help you out alot. Like certain body langueage books, how to escualate sexually, how to get nice conversations that create connection, books to learn some cold reading like the cube to get a deep connection with her. I know the cube but should be more stuff like that that you could just learn?

NLP routines, and a book with canned lines and routines. For daygame I like natural and can open. So here all the books besides pua books that could be applied to that situation are great. But for nightgame I suck at natural and I need something to study on diffrent ways to open up sets and get things going with some routines for the first minutes.

So I hope you guys understand on what kind of books I need. I got like 200 dollar to spend. I will read books and between the studying do stuff in practice and go back to reading and learning then do more real life practice.

Thanks alot!
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 8:32 am 
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I found the following books very valuable.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Art_of_Seduction
The Art of Seduction looks back on famous historical persons and gives a wider and more comprehensive perspective on seduction than PUA-related material. It can be a little bit tedious to read, but it is definitely worth it.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/inn ... ding-minds
This book (the first three chapters) gave me insights in how to build rapport, and what rapport really is. For me this meant "no more rejections". It also made me critical to terms like "break rapport", which I think is a misunderstanding of the word.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 10:54 am 
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Pick up.

60 years of challenge.

Models- Mark Manson.

How to win friends and influence people- Dale Carnegie

Business

Poor dad, rich dad - Robert kiyosaki

4 hour work week- Tim ferris


Health and nutrition

Burn the fat, feed the muscle- Tom Venuto

Strong lifts 5x5 - Medhi

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 3:15 pm 
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Pick up.

60 years of challenge.

Models- Mark Manson.

How to win friends and influence people- Dale Carnegie

Business

Poor dad, rich dad - Robert kiyosaki

4 hour work week- Tim ferris


Health and nutrition

Burn the fat, feed the muscle- Tom Venuto

Strong lifts 5x5 - Medhi

^ very good list!

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 3:20 pm 
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Been watching your YouTube vids mate.

Good stuff, im really into dance game too. Will purchase your book when I get some free time. Hopefully it will be on my top list ;)

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i read some these and they are interesting
  • killing AA

    Louis&copelan secrets of seduction

    play by play attraction guide

    Seduction - FAQ on Women

    speed-seduction-book

    TheSecretCodeSeduction

    Secrets_of_Speed_Seduction_Mastery

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 18, 2013 10:22 am 
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What a replies!! Thanks alot!! I got this list written down and will look into it at wich one I will pick.

AUTOMATIC SEDUCTION B
Minimal Game \
Sex God Method
4 elements of game by rob judge
the art reading minds
pick up
models
Burn the fat, feed the muscle
killing AA
Louis&copelan secrets of seduction
play by play attraction guide
Seduction - FAQ on Women
speed-seduction-book
TheSecretCodeSeduction
Secrets_of_Speed_Seduction_Mastery
Mystery method.

You are really good at club game but I am absolutly not the kind of person that can seduce a girl with dancing.. I really dont have that confidince and that already makes you look stupid and 2 I just don't feel comfortable. I really prefer to open up to a 2 set and talk to them. The only thing is I don't want to talk about where they live or what they study and where they do that or if they come here often.. I noticed I did that the last time I went out.

I saw a video on youtube of mystery and matador the really long nightvision one. Matador opens a 2 set. And he really doesn't talk he only does old school routines. He does the ''you got a C smile routine'' and the ''best friends shampoo test'' and then he askes if she believes in esp and he does the nr 3 and nr 7 game. Now by doing all this he just covers up like 10 minutes of interaction withouth asking any stupid questions. I'd like my game to be something like this.

When I went out the last time the only time I went natural was when 2 girls were sitting outside on a bench and I went to sit infront of them and went like ''Hey can I sit here girls?'' ''My friends are gone for a second and if I just stand their I look so friendless and thats stupid and you guys seem fun''. After that I just for some how talked really random shit on a natural way and they found it funny.. Not a single routine here. Even had the close I only then screwed it up on text again..

So I'd also like some more routines you could use on the dancefloor that are a bit simular to matadors one. Is that in any of those books? And then for the natural part learn more about conversations and how not to ask questions when yu just met someone. I know its all about assumptions etc but I kinda suck at making those up at the moment.

With all that and you know all those books tell me wich ones I should buy first or if theirs anything else please let me know!


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 18, 2013 11:58 am 
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10 mins of Convo is not a good thing. MystEry is a pioneer but some of his material is very out dated

Whoever is doing most of the talking is DLV because whoever is doing the entertaining and keep the interaction engaged is seeking approval= DLV

Better to let the girl do it to you.

you're a really missing out on 60 YOC bro, it doesn't even mention dancing in it. It basically the meat and potatoes of seduction. "Models" copies a lot of it too.

Up to you tho, more girls for me ;)

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 18, 2013 12:33 pm 
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10 mins of Convo is not a good thing. MystEry is a pioneer but some of his material is very out dated

Whoever is doing most of the talking is DLV because whoever is doing the entertaining and keep the interaction engaged is seeking approval= DLV

Better to let the girl do it to you.

you're a really missing out on 60 YOC bro, it doesn't even mention dancing in it. It basically the meat and potatoes of seduction. "Models" copies a lot of it too.

Up to you tho, more girls for me ;)
60 yoc is automatic seduction i think ...

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Honestly, pick ONE book and read it. Reading to much is just going to give you informational overload and fill your head with mental masturbation. Also, reading many books will give you conflicting advice which is just going to leave you confused.

Pick ONE book, read it, apply it.

If being sexual and over thinking to much is your problem then go with something by 60 Years Of Challenge.

If you feel like you need to work on general inner issues and want to become more masculine then read "Models" by Mark Manson.

If you want a good general book that covers everything generally well and is a great starter book then go with "The Four Elements of Game" by Rob Judge.

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The fury-

I stand corrected. My bad. I guess 60 YOC is the worse for marketing into google.

I should check my own links from time to time ;)

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 18, 2013 1:45 pm 
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Honestly, pick ONE book and read it. Reading to much is just going to give you informational overload and fill your head with mental masturbation. Also, reading many books will give you conflicting advice which is just going to leave you confused.

Pick ONE book, read it, apply it.

If being sexual and over thinking to much is your problem then go with something by 60 Years Of Challenge.

If you feel like you need to work on general inner issues and want to become more masculine then read "Models" by Mark Manson.

If you want a good general book that covers everything generally well and is a great starter book then go with "The Four Elements of Game" by Rob Judge.
Yes you are so right warped! And I thought I had that book. But anyways thanks. I will buy the 60 years of Challange first then! skilled mentioned it also.

I dont get how mystery method is outdated? His way of opening sets what to do with the girl you want etc it worked for them like gold at some moment? So here nobody does that stuff or did it... So why shouldnt it work? Just wondering..

Then my top 3 book now is. 60 years, models, and the four elements of game. thanks alot!


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